to bang or not to.. tis the question. stage 5

[jay07]

So i meet this girl at this bar couple weeks ago. Get the digits and we hung out q few times. First time we chilled i planned on laying the pipe but we had friends that fell asleep in the same room so i figured next time.

Well, after the first time of actually hanging out she starts telling me "i get attached easily" then snapchats me "dont hurt me!" Like wtf we just met. So kinda scared me but than she texts me, "want to have sex?" So now i tell her "hell ya but i dont want you to get attached im not loomin for a relationship right now, it usually takes a few months before i get involved with a girl like that" she avoids thqt text and says "so no?" I say "what time u free" and doesnt text back that night.

So last night i go to the bar with some buddies. I ask her if shes coming out, she ignores me (after snapchatting all day) and shows up anyways. But instead of talking to me, she says hi and continues to flirt with all ky friends. Now idc abouther doing that, but it was obvious she was trying to make me jealous. So she finds one of my boys in particular and hangs around him all night until i start leaving then trys to beg me to stay and tells me shes mad at me. Im like okay see ya.

Now she texted me today but i ignored it.

Pretty sures shes hpd. No dad, one female friend, ALL guy friends, short text responses that contribute nothing to convo.

Should i just avoid her.. seems like a clinger.

 

[casaanova]

Should've smashed her that first night. Sounds like she's definitely in the game or atleast been around the block, so she was probably expecting it even with ppl in the room. When u didnt try to smash, she immediately put u in the boyfriend bag whether u wanted it or not, cuz all the other guys she know probably try to hit it ASAP and leave. Don't text her anymore unless she's coming straight to the crib, anything else is gonna be "leading her on" in her eyes

 

[The_411]

She sounds cluster B alright and you know it so you can either have sex and spend a bunch of time with her driving you crazy or you can realize she can do your head in and find a girl who isn't going to be dangerous for your health

 

[PlayHer Man]

She is clearly a game player and possibly a little psycho. Women who are mentally and emotionally healthy DO NOT behave this way. So that's the first thing you need to understand. You're dealing with a nut.

Remember --> Women are on their best behavior in the early stages of relationships.

If she is acting coo-coo this early.. just imagine what's in store. :nervous:

My advice is to move forward 100% on your terms. Don't lift a finger to "assist" this relationship. Communicate when it suits you and agree to meet at times and places that suit you. If she meets up no problem... try to sharpen your pencil. If she plays more head games.. walk away and don't look back.