Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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To ask out or not to ask out

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Pimpology101

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Ive been hanging out with this girl for awhile and i just recently kissed her. Do u think i should i ask her out? or do u think it will make any difference in my odds of getting the good stuff?:p
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok ive been hanging out with this girl as friends for maybe 2 months. Last week i kissed her and im hugging her more often n stuff now. I would like to ask her out if that would take it to the next level or do u think i need to?
 

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I don't think you need us to walk you through the dating step by step method since you know this girl far better than us.

I'm going to assume that you mean kissing on the lips. If you haven't asked her out and already started kissing, then I dont see a problem with asking her for a date.

It's sort of like asking, "I had sex with this woman, is it ok to kiss her now?"
 

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thats it ill just make it a simple question.. whats the fastest way i can get in her pants, and shes quite a rookie, i gave her her first kiss. ive been told kino works well to get her comfortable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do what you feel is right - if it seems awkward, it probably is. Why fixate on the whole 'are we dating or are we not' part when you're having a good time with this girl in the first place. I mean, who cares about the label...hang out, have fun, and things will definitely fall into place for you.
 

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Dude, use these exact words with her: "We should hang out sometime. Let's get coffee."

That's a low-pressure way to get a meeting with her. Don't tell her that you want to take it to the next level. Instead just do it once you guys meet.

By the way, DO NOT ask her out on a date. Dating is only to be used as a REWARD for women who have sex with you.
 

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like a situation tonight, i stopped by her house ( parents live there ) we got done watching a movie and she looks at me and asks "now what?" Of course the only thing on my mind is getting it on with her but how do i let her know that thats what i want to do?
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My bad, I sort of missed the part about you giving her her "first kiss."

I personally think that this is kinda wrong to do. Taking away someone's viriginity for something kind of trivial, but I'm not the Moral Gestapo. If she's going to fvck and she wants it, she's going to get it either from you or someone else.

The speed at which you can unlock the path into her pants largely decides on her upbringing. If she has strong personal morals, then the magic might not happen until well into the relationship. You can usually test your waters by pushing the limits, such as feeling her up (base 2) to kissing her body and slowly albeit deliberately moving down. Once the water's lukewarm and she doesnt object to the SMOOTH transition to base 3, you can try for the full monty only if she reciprocates and you feel the chemistry. Little tension on her part is fine b/c it's her first time, but a lot of tension won't be so good and probably not too pleasurable for you. It definately wont be for her.

Just run around the bases with a smooth transition. Make sure to get into the lusty mood through body language, talk, and kino. Smooth is the key. Fumbling at the bra strap or spending 5min unbuttoning her pants is sorta like pouring a bucket of cold water on her lap.
 

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By the way, DO NOT ask her out on a date. Dating is only to be used as a REWARD for women who have sex with you.
Lol. That's a bit extreme. I think he's in high school. Coffee is more like the college and beyond type of thing. Maybe bowling.
 

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What to say is the question tho... Say were laying on my bed watching a movie. How do i transition watchin a movie to the bases?
 

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Originally posted by AmgineEX
I think he's in high school. Coffee is more like the college and beyond type of thing. Maybe bowling.
He can substitute whatever word he wants in place of "coffee" but the point is that he should ask her to something that is not explicitly a date. That way it will be low-pressure.

Bowling is certainly okay, because it's a shared activity.
 

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Use kino. It's your best friend. Keep the touching above the knees and below the head (ie: neck and lower). Slowly touching, gentle and subtle at first followed up by slightly more forceful.

If you guys werent watching a movie, then maybe a massage can do nicely as a transition, easy to move into sexual advances during/after a massage (you can almost view it as alcohol as it lowers their inhibitions slightly).

Read her body language, if she's moving into the touching, well, that's a no brainer. If she's partially resisting try again, usually if by the 2nd/3rd time she's still resisting and each time stronger than the last, then she's obviously rejecting your advances. If she partially resists but no other verbal physical cues are given, then she's unsure about it and you can swing her either way, depending on how smooth you are. Just don't invade her forcefully. The key, again, is to be smooth. Move from none sexual to sexual touching, from gentle to firm.

It takes practice, but is excellent for breaking down those defenses. Oh, and one more thing: dont put yourself into a slappable position, that'll end the relationship real quick.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Pimpology101
Of course the only thing on my mind is getting it on with her but how do i let her know that thats what i want to do?
How do you let her know? Its very simple: YOU DO!

In that situation, I'd smile, look at her, say nothing, and move in for the kiss, then start to move my arms over her body, and then begin to disrobe her. If she doesn't want to have sex, she'll make it clear to me with her hands that she just wants to stick to making out.
 

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simple

Originally posted by Pimpology101
What to say is the question tho... Say were laying on my bed watching a movie. How do i transition watchin a movie to the bases?

This is easy. If you are on your bed make sure you are lying in front of her so that you can easily turn over and steal a kiss from her, then just take her into your arms right then and there.

If on the couch, make sure the lights are off and dimmed (as well) and turn to her and you can do the hair/kiss test. That would probably be best. Then just kiss her. Right then and there.
 

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Originally posted by Pimpology101
thats it ill just make it a simple question.. whats the fastest way i can get in her pants, and shes quite a rookie, i gave her her first kiss. ive been told kino works well to get her comfortable.
read the bible before you post q's like this.

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