To anyone who is discouraged with their game in high school

[Brighty]

Don't stress it. Seriously.

I know its hard, but the cold hard truth is that high school is a very fickle time and reputation is so easy to get tarnished there. Check through my post history - I've had such a hard time coming despite being given a lot of advantages with women and it's encouraging for me to just go back to 2006 and just take a step back and see how far I've come in just three years.

Seriously though, I hardly fooled around with ANY high school girls until my senior year and I was getting so discouraged with myself, but I've only been in college for three weeks and already now I have put many of my old schools' "studs" and "DJs" to shame. I felt like I knew the game and I knew how to act around girls my senior year, but my previous three years of being a goofball chode were blocking me everywhere I turned. I was pretty much right on the money, but I never really knew how right I was.

Even though you may feel like you are getting shot down repeatedly and nothing is working and you aren't producing any results, do not give up. Keep learning the material and keep practicing it, because even though I have had little success in high school, my success in college has been phenomenal. Its the perfect atmosphere to meet girls. Chin up, kids, and get good enough grades so you can go to a great college, high school really doesn't mean anything.

 

[jeffthechef]

basically high school is meant to prepare you for college..or should be at least
so yes school should be your main priority..education leads to a better life

as for the reputation and girls thing...i semi-agree

if you dont get in during the first two years..you won't later on...unless you do some reallllly stupid ****...Many high school kids aren't the most mature..The popular kids are nice though..friendly and all...but don't expect to be pulling TOO MANY popular girls..because they DO care about reputation...and i'm sure they would admit it..

nonetheless, you can still pull most girls and the popular girls in a grade below you or above if they don't know about your rep (assuming you have a bad one)

BUT as the op said..high school game is rather pointless because it's too easy...and unrealistic...if you're popular, easy to get chicks without really even wanting to..but in the real world, won't happen..connections don't work like that

College should be great for all dj's...a new place..and they can start off right from the beginning and not have any afc-like reputations

In summary:
1. High school is chiefly about academics.
2. High school game is unrealistic, but nonetheless the girls are still fun heh.
3. Don't stop trying if you aren't doing so well right now.
4. Don't WASTE all your time on girls. Make sure you are still pursuing other interests and focusing on prirorities.

 

[Brighty]

basically high school is meant to prepare you for college..or should be at least
so yes school should be your main priority..education leads to a better life

as for the reputation and girls thing...i semi-agree

if you dont get in during the first two years..you won't later on...unless you do some reallllly stupid ****...Many high school kids aren't the most mature..The popular kids are nice though..friendly and all...but don't expect to be pulling TOO MANY popular girls..because they DO care about reputation...and i'm sure they would admit it..

nonetheless, you can still pull most girls and the popular girls in a grade below you or above if they don't know about your rep (assuming you have a bad one)

BUT as the op said..high school game is rather pointless because it's too easy...and unrealistic...if you're popular, easy to get chicks without really even wanting to..but in the real world, won't happen..connections don't work like that

College should be great for all dj's...a new place..and they can start off right from the beginning and not have any afc-like reputations

In summary:
1. High school is chiefly about academics.
2. High school game is unrealistic, but nonetheless the girls are still fun heh.
3. Don't stop trying if you aren't doing so well right now.
4. Don't WASTE all your time on girls. Make sure you are still pursuing other interests and focusing on prirorities.

Exactly. Great post.

 

[Scars]

Tru dat. During my high school curriculum I had only slept with 3 partners by the time I graduated. Want to know how many I'm at now? 24, and I've only been out of high school for a year. So call me a later bloomer I guess, but at least it makes sense to me now. My reputation was horrid in high school. After I left I got a fresh start and became the man I wanted to be. It's all about social value. If you're really worried about it so much then work on improving your social status and getting into the "cool" crowd. Me personally, I never cared that much for it. I value being MYSELF more than I do being popular or getting pvssy. You start to realize that after you graduate all of that bullsh!t that made everyone so "cool" then means nothing now.

 

[eaglez1177]

basically high school is meant to prepare you for college..or should be at least
so yes school should be your main priority..education leads to a better life

as for the reputation and girls thing...i semi-agree

if you dont get in during the first two years..you won't later on...unless you do some reallllly stupid ****...Many high school kids aren't the most mature..The popular kids are nice though..friendly and all...but don't expect to be pulling TOO MANY popular girls..because they DO care about reputation...and i'm sure they would admit it..

nonetheless, you can still pull most girls and the popular girls in a grade below you or above if they don't know about your rep (assuming you have a bad one)

BUT as the op said..high school game is rather pointless because it's too easy...and unrealistic...if you're popular, easy to get chicks without really even wanting to..but in the real world, won't happen..connections don't work like that

College should be great for all dj's...a new place..and they can start off right from the beginning and not have any afc-like reputations

In summary:
1. High school is chiefly about academics.
2. High school game is unrealistic, but nonetheless the girls are still fun heh.
3. Don't stop trying if you aren't doing so well right now.
4. Don't WASTE all your time on girls. Make sure you are still pursuing other interests and focusing on prirorities.

Great post.

This kinda reminds me of myself because I feel like I have some great game, and once I get to college im gonna be getting a lot of pvssy. Way more than I do now. Not only that, but my rep is kinda tarnished in HS cuz I dated this chick at the beginning of my junior year, and her rep was very very bad cuz she was known by everyone to be a huge slvt. Regardless, she was still pretty hot, and I decided to not give a sh*t about my rep and what others think, because I was getting amazing lays every weekend.

Today, im a senior and I can still fvck my ex gf whenever I want. Not only that, but I can get with chicks from other schools and girls that dont know I dated my ex very easily.

My game since then has improved greatly, not to mention that im great in bed cuz of all the practice. Once I get this dumb rep off of me, im gonna go crazy in college.

 

[Brighty]

Bumping for the November crowd.