"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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To anyone who hasn't read a book by OSHO, do it NOW

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Osho was a Mystic teacher from India who turned America upside down in the 70's and 80's with his radical, transformative and dangerous way of speaking. Aside from being an enlightened genius, he broke down the truth about relationships, love, marriage, sex, and feminism like no has ever.

I have not come across a more valuable resource for inner game development, and total self mastery in regards to life and women anywhere.

There was a lot of controversy around this man, and he may have even been poisoned to death by the U.S. Government. If you read some of his books, you will understand why.

If you are about transcending the Matrix, and blowing by all the BS women and society try to put on you, Osho books are a must read.

I recommend:

Creativity: Incites for a new way of living.

Intimicy:Incites for a new way of living.

Intuition:Incites for a new way of living.

Courage: Incites for a new way of living.

All available at Borders, etc.

And any other books in this series, and any other Osho (Bahgwan Shree Rashneesh) books you can get your hands on. I will post a paragraph from one of the books in this thread later, to give you a taste.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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hi i have read osho's works...and yes and I did find them pretty get-me-on-the-way-to-self-exploration type...But the problem with this guy is that he'll tell you from what to wear to how to talk...and that's just about creating followers...

He attained enlightenment(whatever that means..) ..but if he thinks that's exactly how everybody can achieve it...I'm sorry a man got to find his own path...

let me tell i have been his follower for more than a year..i understood what he said...and i embraced it...but after that it did't even matter...i find him fake...with his seven incarnation theory etc.

Any spiritiual text or guru can be really consuming..they might solace you in the beginning but in due time everybody realises the wastefulness of all this...may be it's the awakened spirit that gives you this realization...
 

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sherineo said:
hi i have read osho's works...and yes and I did find them pretty get-me-on-the-way-to-self-exploration type...But the problem with this guy is that he'll tell you from what to wear to how to talk...and that's just about creating followers...
That is very interesting. In most of the books and talks I have heard, he refuses to give any instructions. Rather, he mandates that you must discover it for yourself. He is very self contradicting however, so I dont doubt what you say. He tends to tell each group what that group needs to hear at that moment.

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He attained enlightenment(whatever that means..) ..but if he thinks that's exactly how everybody can achieve it...I'm sorry a man got to find his own path...
Right. And that can be said about this forum as well. Eventually it needs to be dropped.


sherineo said:
let me tell i have been his follower for more than a year..i understood what he said...and i embraced it...but after that it did't even matter...i find him fake...with his seven incarnation theory etc.
Not familiar with this, and I'm not so interested in his spiritual methods. Just his radical and profound outlook on social dynamics.

sherineo said:
Any spiritiual text or guru can be really consuming..they might solace you in the beginning but in due time everybody realises the wastefulness of all this...may be it's the awakened spirit that gives you this realization...
Again this included dating forums and advice books and techniques as well.

Thanks for you feed back
 
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