"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dear Allen,

(...who probably has a super 100% effective, 0% pass-through spam filter...)

If at all possible can you contact me on my personal address regarding the DJB and its future placement so that I can arrange its future.

My username is Nicholas Hill

My email address is my username above as one word, @ntlworld.com

Thanks,
Nick

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Curiousity killed the cat.^
 
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Fags^
 
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PS: Everyone else... you opened this message WHY?!
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OK. Let me tell you.

The fact is:

I had to choose from 2 threads that had new posts.

Either success story forum. I don't give a bull about that.

Or this one.
I first thought it was something about the client.
Turned out to be far more important.
Think about sosuave.com with out the DJ Bible. *shudders*

LOL at penkitten.



Are you happy now??
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by Nicholas Hill

PS: Everyone else... you opened this message WHY?!
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I'm just curious why you haven't found the private message button.
 
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