"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

To All the Writers

Sojourn

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2008
Messages
99
Reaction score
0
Location
Neverland
Doing Well

Wow been A little bit since I have seen this thread. Since you guys have been nice enough to give me some good advice I will give you a quick update. I started a journal and have been writing more ever since I started this thread. I have not had as much time to read due to finals, but have been picking it up lately. Currently I am reading On Writing by Stephen King. I just want to thank you guys for the help and support. I will continue to work on my writing.

By the way can anyone recommend some good books to read? The books can be anything fiction, non fiction, etc... As long as they are good recommend them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

Sojourn

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2008
Messages
99
Reaction score
0
Location
Neverland
iqqi I don't really have a favorite book or genre of books. I pretty much read anything and everything, but recently I have been reading a lot of fantasy and science fiction books. Just suggest away if you suggest something on here I will probably read it in within a week or so. I just love to read. Since I don't really have any favorites just suggest some of your favorites.

Gubby I will check that book out and let you know what I think.
 

iqqi

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 27, 2003
Messages
5,135
Reaction score
82
Location
Beyond your peripheral vision
Well I recently read the Golden Compass and its sequel, because I like to read the book before I see the movie.

The books were great, I JUST watched the movie, and it SUCKED. Only because it strayed so far from the book, which would have made for an epic movie if they had done it right.

Science fiction, fantasy, good characters, religion... read this series, its pretty good!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Gubby

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
601
Reaction score
18
Age
36
Location
Spain
iqqi said:
Well I recently read the Golden Compass and its sequel, because I like to read the book before I see the movie.
You mean that book by Philip Pullman?

I'm asking because it goes by two names according to my vague recollection: that and "Northern lights"
 

Sojourn

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 12, 2008
Messages
99
Reaction score
0
Location
Neverland
Will check the books out iqqi. On another note don't you hate it when movies don't do the books justice. It seems to happen often. Although I can't think of any examples at the moment.
 

SinJester

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2007
Messages
1,226
Reaction score
44
Location
Australia
Anyone a fan of Terry Brooks?

Iqqi sometimes I even stay away from movies based on books I like because I'm afraid it will ruin it for me. The thing is you probably might have enjoyed the movie if you hadn't read the book, but the reading the book wouldn't be the same.
 

Gubby

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 13, 2005
Messages
601
Reaction score
18
Age
36
Location
Spain
Two more good authors: terry pratchett, douglas adams. If you don't know these guys HURRY! The world will end if you don't read them NOW!
 
Top