"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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To All The Niceguys: Have You Ever Been The Confident Jerk?

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A confident jerk isn't something you want to be. I went to a school full of confident jerks, guys who held nothing but contempt for me and anyone who didn't live up to the standard they represented. To this day, I can't visualize any of what's taught on this site without recalling how they used it to amuse themselves with my suffering.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Visceral
A confident jerk isn't something you want to be. I went to a school full of confident jerks, guys who held nothing but contempt for me and anyone who didn't live up to the standard they represented. To this day, I can't visualize any of what's taught on this site without recalling how they used it to amuse themselves with my suffering.
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I think you're referring to bullies.

Bullies have lots of insecurities actually, the only way they can cover it up and project their anger is to take it out on someone else...preferrably someone they may be jealous of.
 
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There problem was probably insecurity yes. Most jerks are egotistical bas-tards, adn you don't want to be like that. You want to be super confident and playful, but at the same time you have to act human. You can't go around acting like you actually think you're better than everyone else or you will repel people. You have to know you're good, but don't be really obvious about it.... hard to explain.
 
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