To all the "interest level disappeared" posters

[Falcon25]

This post is dead on and absolutely right. You can only control what you control. I can't tell you how many times I have beaten myself up over chick just flat out dissapearing. It happens. That's why it is crucial not to invest too much emotional energy early on in a relationship.

Most of the time it has nothing to do with you bro.

 

[Mistic]

I have seen hundreds of these in the last few weeks. Read this very carefully.

In the beginning, unless you did something very stupid, there is only one reason a woman's interest declines.

Another man.

But this guy has always been there, he may be an ex, an fb, ex husband, a male she met before you, etc. But, the point of the matter is that 99.5 percent of the time you didn't do anything wrong. It's just that the other guy finds out about you and steps up his game. He has something very valuable with her that you don't have. Which is time. There is no doubt that if a woman accepts and goes out with you, but then is uninterested, it's because she has someone else. Otherwise, unless you were an idiot on your dates, she doesn't have a reason not to call you. In this day and age, women are not dating anymore, they are chilling with scores of guys. We are all ****ved anyway. But just a heads up on low interest in the BEGINNING.

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How ironic. The same poster who thinks all women want in bed is to be fvcked hard, is making a thread about interest levels disappearing.

How convenient that you have created this, "other guy" solution to your problem. Hmm, if a woman loses interest in me, it must be because of another guy. It certainly doesn't have anything to do with my one dimensional sexual approach.

"Yes, it must be another guy stepping up his game." Keep telling yourself that.

 

[xdreamz]

i can relate to this post.. been in that situation where i thought the girl was mine and actually believed that they were ex lovers for good, then she cut it off completely so fought like hell to keep it there but everything i did was a waste. i remember calling her some weeks later, i could hear her boyfriend barking in the background, and there was an awkward silence so I laughed and she gave me a little laugh back. theres hope in a nutshell for you.

 

[Blue Phoenix]

"If you don´t know why she is going elsewhere, you can´t identify corrective action".

Asking her is a lost proposition too. So you have to pay a lot of attention and be hopeful you can figure out why she´s leaving....
It´s like in business, the real reason why you were fired is "never" the one they tell you.