“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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To all of those who have been here for a LONG time

Dannyrt34

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I've been actively reading and posting here at Sosuave for almost 3 years. Last night i decided to search all my previous posts out of curiosity. AND HOLY SHlT! I can't believe how far I've came since joining here.

It nearly brought tears to my eyes. It was almost like looking at a diary I haven't read in a few years. It brought back memories of old girls i crashed and burned with, my first time to the club, my vacation fling i had 2 and a half years ago. Where are all the other veterans of SS at? Have any of you tried doing this? If not I suggest you do. It's a real eye opener.

And to the newer people, I suggest you start posting all of the good and bad things going on with your life, this will all come in handy later down so you can see how much you've accomplished and see how far you've really came.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crazy Asian

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haha yeah i've been on here for 2 years
back then, i was wondering what present i should get a girl and asking if girls really liked sex haha
 

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I do that from time to time. Its a humbling thing, and also a confidence boost at the same time.

At first, I was so shy of speaking, i couldn't deliver a pickup line properly, let alone a 30 sec opener.

I still remember the first time a girl did NOT flake on me, came out to meet me, and we were arm in arm walking down the streets, and I was looking guys in the eyes with that "i just got a blowj0b" look. haha
 
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Where are all the other veterans of SS at? Have any of you tried doing this?
The only way I can possibly view my old posts is by using the Wayback Machine. Sosuave used to automatically delete posts that were over a certain age to maintain server space, so those of us who have been here for around 5+ years have no way of looking back, except for posts that ended up in the Archive or the DJ Bible.
 

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I realized, after being in a relationship for over a year and then breaking up, it too me about 30-60 days, going out 4 nights a week, to really get my game back.

It's amazing how much the game can get sucked out of you when you are in a relationship. Also, your social circle gets smaller, because you just don't have time. Thankfully I was able to talk game with some of my friends from college, and we're out there 4 nights a week at least.

I read some posts I made back in July and August, right after the breakup, and I have come really far SINCE THEN

And I'm glad. Writing and reading on here really does help.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I have been posting for several years. Everything I have ever written on here, it is really myself that I am talking to.
 

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i just came back today for like a 1 year break i remember bible belt being on here lol...yea i came along way like im a ****ing pro now...lol hahahahaha seriously...i date girls who screw guys over and then tell me about it ... like it feels good to date the girls everybody else wants to f*ck it makes you feel like a Straight up don juan... i finally found out what that means..but you can only find out by leaving...and i came back to talk to others like me..;-)
 

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Good thread! It's important for us to see how far we've come and feel proud of it.


I've been here about 18 months (Slaog is my new name). First few months I just came on for a few minutes every few weeks. About 13 months ago I started to get more serious and started reading up and posting more.


I can remember some of my old posts and threads. It's only a few months ago I really changed. Before that at the start of the summer for example I was still very much an AFC.


It's great to feel that sense of knowing you can attract women rather then just wishing and hoping like before.
 
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