"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Luveno

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Why did you come to this forum? What do you feel you can gain by reading posts in this forum?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Luveno

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Finlay,

knowledge of what? Be more specific.
 

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I came to learn how to be a better at socializing. I want to learn how to get women to like me more and quicker. I am the nice guy or was. I still am a nice person but am figuring out what I have been doing to drive these women away. Before i came here I couldnt figure out what the problem was. Iam 6'2" 190lbs with 9% bf (great shape). I have brown hair with grey green eyes. Good complexion. I drive a nice 2000 mustang with a killer stereo system(yes I know material items dont matter but I just want to show that I am not broke). I dress well. I am smart and almost out of college. WTF was the problem. Thanks to here I figured it out. A little more then what you asked for but there it is.

Dizzle
 

alphawolfx

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i came here so i can learn how to attract and f.uck a lot of women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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earthshyne

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Came across the site by accident, but glad I registered and stayed.

Why did I come here?

Because even at my age (45) I can learn something. And maybe, just maybe, I can pass on some of my experiences to young fellows so they won't have to go through some of the same angst I've been through.

And the picture of the chick at the top of the page is cute.
 

cave dweller

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ok........

Hey,

There is a lot more here than learning how to get some hot pvssy.

This site will make you a better man.

my 2 cents

cave dweller
 

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Keep this thread going! Keep on adding your reason for being here.
 

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i came here to learn how to use internet forums :p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Luveno

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...because analyzing the motivation that begins a man's quest to become a DJ isn't related to becoming a DJ.....
 

alphawolfx

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Re: ok........

Originally posted by cave dweller
Hey,

There is a lot more here than learning how to get some hot pvssy.

This site will make you a better man.

my 2 cents

cave dweller
i know, but that was my motivation

i'm already a good man, and some of the things i do to make myself a better "Dj" will make me an even better man, and some of the things i do to make myself a better person end up making me a better "dj"

but my intial motivation was because i wanted to f.uck a lot of women

but i'm questioning my inner motivations lately
 

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to learn the BS that goes around here.. we should learn by experiencing outside this place.
 
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