"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To all kinda Pretty and not Big looking, rather kinda Skinny guys....

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dav27

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Stop being lazy and read the forum. Your question's way too vauge to get it's own topic.
 

dav27

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What i'm saying is worthwhile. It doesn't matter if you're skinny or not, as long as you're happy with yourself.

If you had read the forum/DJ bible you'd know this. There's so much stuff on this plastered all over the forum i find it hard to believe you've tried to help yourself.
 

schttrj

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dav, dont u think i have a different question in here. did u actually read the OP? i dont think so. I asked how you approach and open, this part of the game? You must also know that I am actaully kinda attractive, the kind of pretty guys who dont like the big badboys.... so wanted to know how my kind of guys go about it.... i see u r new into the forum, pls take ur tiem, dude!

movin' along!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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