"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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To all kinda Pretty and not Big looking, rather kinda Skinny guys....

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dav27

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Stop being lazy and read the forum. Your question's way too vauge to get it's own topic.
 

dav27

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What i'm saying is worthwhile. It doesn't matter if you're skinny or not, as long as you're happy with yourself.

If you had read the forum/DJ bible you'd know this. There's so much stuff on this plastered all over the forum i find it hard to believe you've tried to help yourself.
 

schttrj

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dav, dont u think i have a different question in here. did u actually read the OP? i dont think so. I asked how you approach and open, this part of the game? You must also know that I am actaully kinda attractive, the kind of pretty guys who dont like the big badboys.... so wanted to know how my kind of guys go about it.... i see u r new into the forum, pls take ur tiem, dude!

movin' along!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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