"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Nocturnal
About Pook, let me tell you this. There is a lot to take from Pook's posts, but if you're like me, you won't really understand them until you've been around for a long time. I read all of his popular posts when they were first big, but after going back over some of the classics on the board I started to pick things up that I hadn't thought about before, and they were often the main ideas.

There is a lot of knowledge on the board other than Pook's stuff, and just because he's intellectually way up there doesn't mean he's the only one who knows what he's talking about.
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Nocturnal, who do you think are good posters on the board aside Pook and why?

Thanks in advance
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I would say don't always go by the quality of the poster, but go by the quality of the post.

This is a great place to start:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/forumd...1&perpage=35&sortorder=desc&sortfield=voteavg

Some people can have dozens of awesome posts, but there can be one little guy with no credibility who finally understands things, then writes a post full of wisdom that puts some of the better posts to shame.

But in general, read the posts recommended by the bible and the ones on the page I gave you, and you'll start to see who is credible.
 
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