To add to the "cheating" threads....

[speed dawg]

a little off topic, but....

My best friend is dating a prototypical AW. She will find some irrational logic to justify every disrespectful thing she does. She has remained faithful to him (or at least he says she has) but she definitely loves the attention of other guys, especially ex-bfs, and guys she knows wants her. She toys with all of them. She's a high class wannabe, for sure. My gf hates her ass. Any down to earth girl does, except for her closet-wh0re societal friends. She's "friends" with all her ex boyfriends, talks to them frequently. My buddy just doesn't care I guess. We go out, she flirts with everyone there, gets kissed on the cheek, hugged on, felt on......it goes on and on.

She sends out an email inviting me and my gf to a masqerade ball. I look on the list, and it includes 2 of her ex-bf's. WTF? Is that disrespect to my friend or what? Should I tell him? I know an email is a small deal, and he knows how she is, but sh1t, he should know about that sort of thing.

It'd be different if he didn't care, which it seems he doesn't. He fukks her alot, but also spends alot of $$$ on her ass. And, he's helping her remodel her house, for FREE.

I'm just rambling I know. This chick is 28 and has only been with like 4 guys. But, anyday of the week, I'd rather have a girl like mine that is open about sex and stands by her actions, than an AW who just craves male attention and thinks it's cool to be "friends" with her exs and thinks any guy who acts otherwise is "just jealous". Thoughts?

 

[Cableguy]

AWs should be treated like stamps.

Lick 'em

Stick 'em

And send 'em away

 

[speed dawg]

It's instances like these that proves how weak men have become. And to listen to her talk, she KNOWS she can get away with whatever she wants. It's sickening, and she's can't be more than a HB7 with a fukked up face and fake tits.

 

[joekerr31]

it's fine to be distant friends with ex's, some people are able to do that.

although i do think that about 75% of them are just keeping that "f*ck buddy' option open in case they need it down the road.

personally, its your buddy who has the problem, not this AW. she is what she is.

would you ask us "my buddy likes to f*ck kangaroos. he goes to australia and has sex with kangaroos twice a year. i hate kangaroos. don't you think its wrong that these kangaroos are f*cking my buddy?"

i mean, your buddy has to go and f*ck the kangaroos, they don't come to him. he has to make that choice.

this AW isn't holding your buddy's family hostage in her basement and forcing him to date her.

AW are useless for anything but a couple screws at best.

dont hate her, hate your buddy for selling himself out like he is. :crazy:

 

[d9930380]

I might be wrong and I don't want to offend you but do you think you might be a little bit jealous?

He's shagging the hot/popular girl that everyone wants and you're with your homely gf who you made sure to point out that you would prefer over her - why was that neccessary when you where talking about your friend.

Look - We're all men, men do alot for a hot piece of ass! She knows it, he knows it and he's got it and is willing to spend to keep it. That's what hot chicks can get away with, it doesn't stop many guys wanting them. Your girl-friend sounds jealous and your probably taking her side naturally as a bf and also because you are a little too. Offcourse all the other girls hate her, that's natural too.

If you really care for your friend just make sure he knows, you can't buy her love and this girl isn't worth bankrupting yourself for because when it runs out, so will she. If he can afford it then I'm sure he doesn't give a **** - look at Donald Trump. But if he can't then he has to slowly stop and try to turn her into a proper girlfriend rather than a glorified *****. if she walks then that's better for him because he's already had it and it's better to walk away now while he still has some cash left.

Make sure he makes a sex-tape first though - you want to keep that for when your getting on a bit. ;-P

 

[speed dawg]

She's not that hot, she's a "manufactured sexy" look, and definitely fukkable, but not hot. She does have fake tits.

No, pal, not jealousy. Basically wondering why guys put up with that type of behavior. My buddy makes his own decisions. I guess in the end it's a personal preference.

Letting hot girls get away with things is what we preach about in this site. You are AFC for believing it. Correct your own AFCness before coming in here and calling me out for percieved jealousy.

 

[joekerr31]

sounds like you might have to rethink your views on your buddy.

sounds like your a bit disappointed in him.

nothing wrong with that.

no different than being disappointed with him if you came home nad found his f*cking a kangaroo in the *ss.

remove her from the picture and judge his character as it relates to your life. you may end up finding that he's not the "man" you thought he was.

this has happened with me before and I've walked away from guy friends as a result. I want to live my life a certain way and don't have room for men or women who act like idiots when confronted with glaring proof that their behavior is idiotic.

 

[Latinoman]

Personally...the only thing I find "acceptable" is when a woman becomes civil with her ex-husband. And that is due to the fact that they have kids/etc.

A woman being "friends" with an ex- (that was intimate with her) is kind of stupid. And quite honestly, disrespectful. Why would a man want to remain friends with his "ex"? Remain civil...sure. But "friends" as to email-IM-calling each other all the time? Nope. I know I wouldn't. In fact, the only woman I have phucked and have kept contact with is my ex-wife. We have minor children.

Here is the thing...he cannot tell her what to do. All he can do is help her understand what is respectful to him and disrespectful.

Women don't understand the importance of respect among men. You friend does NOT command respect. He will walk to that masquerade place and he will not command that respect.

I wonder how she would reack if HE invites several of his prior lovers.

 

[Latinoman]

Listen guys...I'm not trying to say that is "disrespectful" what she is doing.

What I'm saying is that, I (Latinoman), finds that disrespectful if that is done to ME.

I want to make that clear.

Some things are self-defined.