"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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To activate FB or not?

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Long story short this girl and I were dating for about 7 months and she ended up telling me that she didn't want to be exclusive and it was pretty tough on me and i had a hard time getting over the whole situation. She still contacts me telling me she misses me and she thinks of me etc..

I used to have an FB and i deactivated it about 4 months ago. She has an FB and shes on my friends list, and i just get the feeling that im going to see photos and posts of her that might get to me.

Im wondering whether I should reactivate it or not, im thinking is it better i not have one for me to get over it and keep it mysterious? Or should i reactivate it?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude who cares?

activate your FB, or don't I don't care nor should you

better yet

Meet new girls
Hit the field
Get a new outfit
Get numbers
Go on dates
Smash

PROFIT!

Just go out there and get new options mate!
 
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I deleted my Facebook, and I am still loving it, if you want to use it by all means do so... but don't bother contacting her via Facebook it won't change the situation.
 
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I deleted my Facebook, and I am still loving it, if you want to use it by all means do so... but don't bother contacting her via Facebook it won't change the situation.
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Agreed - Just delete her from your friends list and block her.

If she has your phone number, then either have her number blocked or change the number.
 
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