When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
This doesnt really help us. Ive slept with women who look like other women too. Every guy has done that lol.TheMonkeyKing said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Honestly, anything after "9" on the rating scale is your personal preferences. I have a list of what I'm attracted to in a women, or think, and I've seen a few women who have slashed each and every one- thus being a "10."jur-cough said:
True enough, which makes the idea of a 10 all the more silly. No woman is perfect, no one is going to post a picture on here and have everyone agree the girl is a 10. Shoot, no one is going to post a picture here and have everyone agree that a girl is an 8.dasein said: