"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tired of waiting

BlackDragon

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Ok, its about time for me to lose my virginity. Im in germany for 2 years now and im not going to go without sex anymore. These european girls are fine and are mostly open to sex but I been turning them down. Ok I have a date this friday with russian chick that I met on myspace. We been emailing and talking on the phone for the past month. She said she wants to chill with me and show me a good time. So im assuming she wants the **** because she wants me to stay the night. Any tips good on what to do when I meet her that would lead to sex. I already blew a few changes already becuase I was too shy to make any move while I was cuddling with girls. Im afriad that I wouldn't be good because it would be my first time.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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manbearpig

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Don't get too worked up about banging her- that will lead to a date with Miss Rosey Palms faster than anything. Easier said then done I know.
 

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Think of it this way, this isn't going to be your only oppurtunity. You may or may not get laid, but YOU always have control over whether or not you have a good time. Focus on that.
 

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ok, so i just go with the flow? I just have a really big feeling though, that its gonna lead to sex. Most girls here in germany seem to be like that, i just been too inexperince to do anything after im in the bed with them. I been reading some massaging ebooks so maybe i could start off with that.
 

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All I can really say to you about the sex part, is don't worry too much until you get there. Either way you're just gonna have to get better at that through experience. Everyone sucks their first time, I think.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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