"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tired of waiting

BlackDragon

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Ok, its about time for me to lose my virginity. Im in germany for 2 years now and im not going to go without sex anymore. These european girls are fine and are mostly open to sex but I been turning them down. Ok I have a date this friday with russian chick that I met on myspace. We been emailing and talking on the phone for the past month. She said she wants to chill with me and show me a good time. So im assuming she wants the **** because she wants me to stay the night. Any tips good on what to do when I meet her that would lead to sex. I already blew a few changes already becuase I was too shy to make any move while I was cuddling with girls. Im afriad that I wouldn't be good because it would be my first time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Don't get too worked up about banging her- that will lead to a date with Miss Rosey Palms faster than anything. Easier said then done I know.
 

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Think of it this way, this isn't going to be your only oppurtunity. You may or may not get laid, but YOU always have control over whether or not you have a good time. Focus on that.
 

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ok, so i just go with the flow? I just have a really big feeling though, that its gonna lead to sex. Most girls here in germany seem to be like that, i just been too inexperince to do anything after im in the bed with them. I been reading some massaging ebooks so maybe i could start off with that.
 

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All I can really say to you about the sex part, is don't worry too much until you get there. Either way you're just gonna have to get better at that through experience. Everyone sucks their first time, I think.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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