"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tired of short term flings. Looking for long term, But unable to fall in love. Wat do?

impulsivetilldeath

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So over the years i have had flings with a few women i couldn't care less about. Usually i end up distancing myself and get bored with them very fast because they have nothing to offer other than sex.

I am an entrepreneur, And all of my time for more than half a decade has been dedicated to building my business and my career. I am nearing my 30's now - Over the years i have spent thousands of hours and sleepless nights building up the knowledge and my business - And i have tried to live my life by the quote "If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I’m about to do today"

Since i strongly believe in that quote, I have really come to a position in life where i despise short term meaningless sex - I am for the first time in my life feeling i had someone i truly cared about and could build a future with.

I have had opportunities to build a longer term relationship with decent girls, But each time I have come up with an excuse to NOT DATE them.

Are any of you guys in successful longer term relationships?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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