"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tired of one night stands

convict24

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Sosuave you have made me tons better at picking up chicks but I can't seem to get higher quality women for more than one night stand... The last two begged me to **** them all night. good looking girls too. But I can never get these higer quality women to do anything else... If I don't pump and dump il never get to hit it lol damnit:box:

Ideas, thoughts? I want to hear the hard truth about this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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convict24

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Ok, keep doing me like I have but care less if they join me on my daily activities. Stop giving a **** if the high quality girls want to hang. Like I do with the low quality girls I don't give two ****s about that I could easily make into LTR. Il read ppook like you suggested.

And most importantly don't go back to swallowing the blue pill and keep taking the red pill like everyone on sosuave likes to say :rockon:

Solid advise! Iv noticed a huge change in my thinking and the way I take the advice on this site.

And suppurb mod skills on deleting that post. I'm not looking for a ****ing gold digger... :rolleyes: hell I'm not even looking for a LTR Id just like to actually keep these higher quality women coming back for more!
 

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The inner game can definitely be hard, that is what you'll need to have them stick around. High quality girls know they are high quality and will require high quality stimulation. Lower quality girls won't give a sh!t much the same way you don't give a sh!t, you want sex and they want sex. Higher quality girls will want more than just sex, they want to have a good time overall.

You're tired of just having one night stands, you seek that higher quality. Besides fvcking them you'll go far with enjoying other activities with them, typically things you'd do with a close friend. Basically just treat them as any other good friend and add physical intimacy on top of it.

Some guys think they should treat a girl entirely differently because they're having sex with her. A one night stand is basically just sex and not much else. Friends with benefits is called that because you're exactly that, friends with the addition of sex and physical intimacy. If you know how to be a friend then "friends + sex" shouldn't be hard to do. A relationship is friends with benefits and a higher degree of committment.

Players lack the friends part of it while guys who constantly gets friendzoned lacks the physical part of it. Take the best of both worlds and integrate it, that makes for some quality time.
 

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Man I have the same problem. Bang these girls on one night stands and then the next day they have boyfriends.. WTF!? No secondsies?
 

ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Lolur the opposite of me. I pretty much only have inner game haha. Unless it's like a real clublike scenario or if I'm with really close friends. But then again, it's better to have innerr game first then build outter. I dont know where im going with this, just listen to what Ruper said to do cuz Pook is the ultimate transcended being in terms of one's own heart.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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