"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tired of being confused!!

zer0game

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So heres the situation, i met a girl and we hit it off. We started talking and decided to hang out one nite. We had dinner then drove around and talked the whole night it didnt go as far as holding hands i didnt want her to think i was only looking to get laid since it was the first time we hung out alone. Second time we caught a movie, had a couple of drinks and ended up making out. then she started telling me it was going to fast and she doesnt know what she wants, is scared of getting hurt, etc... So we keep talking and one nite i ask her straight out what she feels for me and said nothing!! That were just friends right now. But she keeps looking for me, texting and calling!! I dont know what to do i mean she straight out told me she had no feelings for me at all!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated i like this girl and dont wanna lose her but it seems like she friend zoned me...oh and all of this is in the span of 1-1/2 months.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MM92

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You sound like my mate who I thought about introducing to this site, but he doesn't listen to me soo.. (plus he's probably drunkenly passed out with a drunk fat chick)

I don't know your full situation, but in my experience (and i have more than enough for a 19 year old) if a female wants you then she wants you. It is that simple. Pook probably has a full story on it, but that is as clear as i can be, in my experience. Take it or leave it...
 
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