"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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tired of being confused!!

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So heres the situation, i met a girl and we hit it off. We started talking and decided to hang out one nite. We had dinner then drove around and talked the whole night it didnt go as far as holding hands i didnt want her to think i was only looking to get laid since it was the first time we hung out alone. Second time we caught a movie, had a couple of drinks and ended up making out. then she started telling me it was going to fast and she doesnt know what she wants, is scared of getting hurt, etc... So we keep talking and one nite i ask her straight out what she feels for me and said nothing!! That were just friends right now. But she keeps looking for me, texting and calling!! I dont know what to do i mean she straight out told me she had no feelings for me at all!! Any advice would be greatly appreciated i like this girl and dont wanna lose her but it seems like she friend zoned me...oh and all of this is in the span of 1-1/2 months.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MM92

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You sound like my mate who I thought about introducing to this site, but he doesn't listen to me soo.. (plus he's probably drunkenly passed out with a drunk fat chick)

I don't know your full situation, but in my experience (and i have more than enough for a 19 year old) if a female wants you then she wants you. It is that simple. Pook probably has a full story on it, but that is as clear as i can be, in my experience. Take it or leave it...
 
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