"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you do when a girl seems to be tired and under a lot of stress??? Do you just let her be for a while or try to keep the interest high and don't worry about her being tired?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I dont know what kind of situation your question is applying toward.
Anyway It doesnt matter if you're optimistic and fun to be around, girls get moody easily under physical & mental stress. If a girl is like that just leave her alone until next time she's in a better mood.

Bad association can also happen. If good things happen and she feels good when you're around, she'll associate that with you. If it's the opposite, she can also come to associate that with you.
 
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Learn to live with it. Women are stressed over stupid stuff all the time. The more you get used to it, the better you'll be at dealing with it. Then again, you don't want a girl who is stressed out all the time. Major heavy maintenance.
 
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