"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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tips/ways to know if a girl is cheating/will cheat on you

RangerMIke

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Women are genetically engineered to find alpha dna, and beta provisioning.
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We have other social studies experiments clearly showing that women openly express hypergamy within committed exclusive relations as far as 45%. And that is just a social studies experiment, any player knows far fvcking more than any social-scientist (anyone who disagrees that science catches up with game need only check the chateau's "science validates game" section).

And that is to say nothing regarding inset experience (which no one values lol). Which I'll also answer if anyone wants.
True... there is one constant (with only a handful of exceptions) in most human cultures and that is the taboo nature of sex. Where sex has to be something done in private... away from others. Why? We take it for granted that it is just the way it is... but we don't do that with eating... sleeping... drinking water. We even have public restrooms, so what is it about SEX.

A sociology theory states that at the dawn of man... we were organized into bands of apes... like now with chimps and gorillas You had an Alpha male who wanted all the chicks to himself and he would KILL any male that tried to mate with one of his females. The females learned that the ONE Alpha male was incapable of taking care of all the females, so the females would have sideline things going on with one of the Beta males... he would give her things, he would get sex.... but it had to be in secret... over time this became the human norm. Females will always be drawn to the Alpha, and the expect nothing out of him but sex. The Beta is the provider... and his access to them was conditioned on his wiliness to provide for her.

This is proven out in tests with chicks when they were asked to gauge the relative attractiveness of different men. Most women, when they ovulate will be attracted to the characteristic alpha... otherwise... she is attracted to the beta. This is also why human being are capable of sex whenever they want. In most other species it is conditioned on the females ovulation.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Theory or not, that’s some nonsense mike.

I’ve never (to my knowledge) been cheated on, wtf am I doing in this chump thread.
 

Macaframalama

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I hear "to my knowledge" a lot, as if most of us would ever have found out unless we set our mind to it. Sometimes I find out a year later by accident.
I heard it in my last exes voice, when she said I love you. This was about 3 months, before chit hit the fan. Then came the going out more, staying out later, but I knew it in her voice. Shame to say, but my mother is the biggest manipulator I've ever known, but it has served me well, as not much I haven't seen. I finally confirmed two days after she left, that she had cheated by a remark a guy had left on her Instagram. She denied it up until that point and made a remark over our last dinner together about "at least we left each other better, than we found each other". Lol.
 

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Explain definition of cheated on. For start.

Emotionally? You have. And haven't pulled a woman out of her frame to see it.

Physically? You haven't made sloppy decisions (hot bi-sexual girlfriend, anyone?), or allowed a ltr to fade on you.

Got fvck all to di with "chump". Unless you been there, done it, and still are a big gaylord.
I’m sorry fella but I have not been cheated on, I’ve ended relationships, none of the signs in this thread strike any accord with me. I’m sorry but it’s true. Emotionally possibly, but I’ll never know, hence to my knowledge. Look not everyone is born the same and I’m sorry for you guys pain but don’t will it on others. Good luck.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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1. She starts being less available to you. Less meetups, less texts, less phonecalls, less sex etc.
2. The moment you see she's doesn't care if you give her your attention or not, then she's getting it elsewhere.
 

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I hear "to my knowledge" a lot, as if most of us would ever have found out unless we set our mind to it. Sometimes I find out a year later by accident.
AWALT all the way man,(for those of us in the know,it's not even debatable) I have a decent lifetime lay count of 250 + and yes ALL women are like that,I have been with women that were obsessed with me cheat,then beg for me back over and over again.Women are also bankrupt of all morals,people are shocked at the number of female teachers here in the US screwing underage male students left and right they say red legg "isn't this shocking" I just shrug and laugh and whisper quietly to myself,buddy if you only knew...
 
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