"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tips to feel good before clubbing / going to bars etc.

Daddy The Pimp

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Tips to feel good before clubbing / going to bars etc. [important to feel good]

Since is Friday , i wanted to tell what i do every time before i go out clubbing .

So first thing , get some SLEEP to get some energy .
Most of PUG's ( pick up guru's ) dont talk about energy and these things but i realized that for me is one of the most important thing .


Energy , Mood ===>> Most important things for me since i got high confidence , balls and tight game :D .

After sleeping , wake up and make a shower (to feel fresh) . Shave , fix your hairs and look good :D . Get your best clubbing clothes wear them . Wear at least one interesting item (i.e. cool necklace , interesting hat or something to get some attention )

Put your favorite music , talk to your parents , talk to someone to get in talkative mood .
Go dance around the house , think some great/funny moments that happened to you to get in better mood .

That when times come , put your favorite cologne , brush your teeths and your ready to go .

When you're there , smile alot , walk confidently , talk to everyone you can , cheer to everyone ( i dont know how to say in english , hit your glass with their glass lightly and say cheers :p you know what im saying ?)

Also your mindset should be IM GOING THERE TO HAVE FUN . Nothing else . Not to get chicks or anything . Just to have fun , to dance , to laugh , to meet other people and thats it .

Dont go there only to get chicks because if you dont get any youll feel desperate .

While opening sets , always open with higher energy/fun level than their . Noone wont let someone lower their fun level . They just want more fun guys.

Thats it , just try it and i hope youll feel better . Nothing to loose .

Also read THIS from Quiksilver .

Cheers bro's .
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Evzone

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This is quite true. If you are going in a good state of mind, you are going to put out good vibes and people are going want to get to know you. Unfortunately it's very easy to forget; sometimes I make things too complicated and worry too much about "openers" or whatever. When you are in a good mood and are having fun, it really just comes naturally and is simple.

Sometimes it is interesting to detach yourself from the club environment and just watch for a few seconds...it's pretty easy to find a few guys who clearly aren't in a good state and are standing by themselves wandering around the dance floor trying to look like they are busy or trying to find a stray girl to booty grind with.
 

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Also your mindset should be IM GOING THERE TO HAVE FUN . Nothing else . Not to get chicks or anything . Just to have fun , to dance , to laugh , to meet other people and thats it .
Quite simply the best advice anyone can give.
 

Quiksilver

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Also your mindset should be IM GOING THERE TO HAVE FUN . Nothing else . Not to get chicks or anything . Just to have fun , to dance , to laugh , to meet other people and thats it .
Damn straight man.

I'd say 90% of the time I go to bars, I rarely see a girl that piques my interest, and even then I only get to the business end of the deal on occasion. The goal is to have fun, but a question you have to ask yourself is... what constitutes 'fun' to you?

Is it shootin the breeze with the boys? Is it getting sloshed? Or is it getting laid?

Personally I only really go out with my boys to the bars these days to either watch sports(nhl playoffs comin soon, yeyeye) and chill out, or get laid(rarely these days:().


Also, I agree that a good nights sleep is one of the most important things.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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