"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips to deal with the Psychos

trajhenkhet

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How does one generally deal with psycho ex's? I know the restraining order is a good place to start.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by Jvesti123
act like an AFC towards them
Beautiful.

Are we talking about psycho ex-bf's of girls you are seeing, or psycho girls that you used to see in the past?
 

trajhenkhet

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An ex that I had to next. She wanted me to be a friend after things ended but to me she not only was lacking in qualaties of a girlfriend but also as someone I would associate with.
 

LouieVaton Don

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A couple of suggestions

Why don't you just tell her not to call you anymore, no regrets and no explanations -OR- take her out somewhere and act AFC, but flirt and pick up other women while your out, she may get mad and try to lure some new guy in. It could backfire though.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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trajhenkhet

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I'm up for your first suggestion. I don't think I could stomach number two. Trick here is that I dumped any way of contacting her.
 
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