"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Tips to crush it in the new year.

Thread starter Demonpenz
Start date Jan 4, 2015

Demonpenz

Senior Don Juan

Jan 4, 2015

Hit the gym. Build Muscle. Being committed to the gym not just interested.
Approach more girls.
Don't worry about what people think.
Keep in touch with someone to hold you accountable for your goals.
Take action action action
Trust the process.
The world is yours. Take it and SMASH IT!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.