"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tips to a Freshman

Gunner26

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I've been on this forum a while, now, I don't post loads as I prefer to take on board what people say, and I don't really have loads of experience with women sexually, but I'm getting there.

What I've seen though is that alot of the members on here seem to be of college/uni age, and to me it's a drastically different experience to the secondary/high school environment. For a start there's no parents, you're living away from home, living with people you've never met and so on.

What I'm proposing here is that we put together a collection of tips for those guys making the transition from highschool to uni on how best to capitalise on their new surroundings. I myself got lucky in that my accommodation meant I was essentially living with 60 students in a block of flats, with 3 flats per floor. However some guys just don't have a clue what to do when they arrive, how to make friends, how to have the best experience possible.

So if everyone could just drop down one tip they think every guy, or girl, going to uni needs to know. Whether it be saying 'Hello' to everyone, to setting the fire alarm off after the first night out with new flatmates to get yourself known.

I'll start off:
Get to the fresher fayre's, every single event, the people there are all going to be freshers, and it's a great way to get to know the basics of what's going on. I know at my uni, the fresher's fayre was the place to go to for signing up for clubs, getting freebies and such. It also gave solid info on all the places to get drunk and which were expensive, and which had student nights.

Cheers
Gunner
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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