Alright... I was on this board a few months ago on another name, but I lost it. So... Im back. Guys. Some tips on dating/going after girls. Never change your ways. ie. listening to their kind of music. For example, I hate country (well most of it) and when I was dating this girl I pretended to like it. Ugh. That sucked. If she doesnt like you for minor things like that, then shes not worth your time.
After getting rejected by this one girl, oh lets say a month ago... I decided I needed to look at my life and see where I was in it. So, anyway, I decided that girls werent an important part of it. As they should be, not number 1, not even number 2. A month passed, before I started scoping women out again. Sure, I had my fair share of girls during that month, but just as friends (the way I wanted it).
So, anyway. Theres this one girl. Normally you would say read the bible. Which I did. Several times. BUT: this girl isnt your average girl. I guess I consider myself semi-gothic (if you want to call it that). Listening to heavy music, dressing pretty darkish, and the like. This girl, as far as my friends put it, "hot but to gothic for me." or something like that.
I am sure we both knew of each other. But, I never really talked to her before this week. A situation (funny one) that we were kind of involved in gave us something in common... Kind of like an ice breaker. So, we talked between classes, smiles and waves and all that small crap also.
Finally during the lunch break, she was sittin by herself, so I go and talk to her. Made her laugh a lot, and such. I think i hit it off pretty good. Next day (today) we talked more and im pretty sure eye contact. So we talked some more, and such. I also got this info. She hates aim. Which is good. also, another tip from me. AIM is horrible when dejaying someone. I agree that it does suck. Now... I dont know if that story really told you anything... but...
1. Did I screw up by not getting her number? I think that woulda been way too fast.
2. Again, not asking her to do something this weekend. I think that was moving too fast too.
3. Monday... Should I go and sit with her at the lunch break again? Or is that being too AFC'ish. I want to make it look like shes in my life, but not the dominant part of my life, right?
thanks guys.
After getting rejected by this one girl, oh lets say a month ago... I decided I needed to look at my life and see where I was in it. So, anyway, I decided that girls werent an important part of it. As they should be, not number 1, not even number 2. A month passed, before I started scoping women out again. Sure, I had my fair share of girls during that month, but just as friends (the way I wanted it).
So, anyway. Theres this one girl. Normally you would say read the bible. Which I did. Several times. BUT: this girl isnt your average girl. I guess I consider myself semi-gothic (if you want to call it that). Listening to heavy music, dressing pretty darkish, and the like. This girl, as far as my friends put it, "hot but to gothic for me." or something like that.
I am sure we both knew of each other. But, I never really talked to her before this week. A situation (funny one) that we were kind of involved in gave us something in common... Kind of like an ice breaker. So, we talked between classes, smiles and waves and all that small crap also.
Finally during the lunch break, she was sittin by herself, so I go and talk to her. Made her laugh a lot, and such. I think i hit it off pretty good. Next day (today) we talked more and im pretty sure eye contact. So we talked some more, and such. I also got this info. She hates aim. Which is good. also, another tip from me. AIM is horrible when dejaying someone. I agree that it does suck. Now... I dont know if that story really told you anything... but...
1. Did I screw up by not getting her number? I think that woulda been way too fast.
2. Again, not asking her to do something this weekend. I think that was moving too fast too.
3. Monday... Should I go and sit with her at the lunch break again? Or is that being too AFC'ish. I want to make it look like shes in my life, but not the dominant part of my life, right?
thanks guys.
