Tips On Meeting Women in Bars

[bachelor]

When I first started macking women, bars were the first place I started. Alcohol, music, and the good atmosphere make it a great place to meet women. Today, I will be discussing how I meet women in bars and some of the techniques I use.

1. Roll with friends- I always roll to the bar with a group of wingman or chicks that will help out my game. For me, it’s easier when I got my friends there backing me up.

2. Have some rhythm- you don’t have to be a great dancer but have some rhythm to bump and grind on the dance floor. I like to dance with girls because it creates sexual chemistry.

3. Never take rejection seriously- I still go to the clubs and try to dance with girls and they move away… Don’t take it serious move on to the next girl and forget it ever happened.

4. Don’t be stingy- For those who don’t drink then I’ll rule them out of this one. If your gonna go out enjoy some drinks, and if the girls seem cool invite them over for some shots. I like to say I bet you can’t keep up with me and challenge them to drinking.

5. Search and Find- Feel girls out and until you know they are cool then invite them over for a ****tail or too. If she has friends, make sure your boys can wingman for you.

6. Execute- When you know their down invite them to the “afterparty” The afterparty is something I set up with my friends where we have bottles and people to hang out at the club. My boy has a pimp place so I always invite the girls over there to

 

[Obsidian]

If #4 implies that you're supposed to be buying drinks for women, then I'd like to know wtf is up with that.

 

[thefemaleperspective]

If a man is to stingy to buy a gal a drink, then I am just not interested at all.

 

[Scought]

Hmm....I think someone once said in a different post: All women are different.....so obsidian may have a point after all.

 

[st_99]

If a man is to stingy to buy a gal a drink, then I am just not interested at all.

I had a girl give me the "aren't you gona buy my drink" line, and I gave her the
old "what are serious?" look. She put up a little stink about it.

I went home with her that night.

She was a slut though. :crackup:

 

[thefemaleperspective]

That was MY opinion on what I would do, goodness u seem so confused.

 

[Obsidian]

That's ok, female, I'm not interested in hooking up with girls who just want to use me for my money.

If I really thought that I could buy a girl's love, I'd probably be willing to throw out some extra cash for drinks. But we all know that isn't how it really works.

 

[onyx]

I Aint Buying Drinks For No Chick If She Wants To Be In My Presence She Buys Drinks For Me

 

[Boston DJ]

There is a lot more to it then using the universal "I don't buy women drinks!" BS. Obviously if a girl asks me to buy her a drink I'll laugh at her. If i'm chatting up a girl and both our drinks are empty I'll buy her another just the same as I'd buy one of my boys another if it was empty.

You need to read the situation and see if the hor is using you for a drink or not. This sh*t is not that difficult

 

[AlanBiley]

There is a lot more to it then using the universal "I don't buy women drinks!" BS. Obviously if a girl asks me to buy her a drink I'll laugh at her. If i'm chatting up a girl and both our drinks are empty I'll buy her another just the same as I'd buy one of my boys another if it was empty.

You need to read the situation and see if the hor is using you for a drink or not. This sh*t is not that difficult

no no no

Guys don't listen to this.

Ok, they best way to teach is to show. Example: my cousin is a natural. He has no game, but his kino is sent from God. That is all he does. Pure kino. Pure gold. Until he buys drinks. Attraction evaporates instantly. It is insane to watch. He cannot believe it himself.

He asked me what he was doing wrong. I told him that he should under no circumstance buy drinks. Never.

So one night he took this in and got a girl coming up to him doing the usual buy me a drink thing. He was cool, and she wouldnt leave him alone, no matter how much she tried he wouldnt get a drink. He would go up to the bar all the time to get me and him drinks, even taunting her that he wasn't getting her a drink. Did she go? Of course not.

He was cool, he was suave, i was proud of him and her friend was easy game for me.

So, she eventually asked him what she had to do to get a drink from him. So he told her. He has a trick where he can put cigarettes out on his tongue. With hissing and smoke and everything. Very cool, but he knows how to do it without hurting himself. He showed her this (which was his second mistake. I am hoping you know the first mistake he made) and told her to do it.

Well, she did. No ceremony. Just plunged her cigarette into her tongue. I could see the pain in her eyes, see her jaw jut and tighten. So he went and got her a drink. She took it from him and told her friend, with a swollen tongue so it sounded quite funny, "I told you he would buy me a drink" and promptly left.

He was stunned. I shook my head. He still doesnt get it.

Point? hopefully too obvious to mention.

I think that he could have gotten her to put cigarettes out in her eyes if he wanted that night, while flanging her.

 

[anointed]

its not that black n white.. if your kino'ing a girl and u have kino from god maybe shes ready to split from the club and go let you hit it.. then you say "let me buy you a drink" shes probably thinkin "aw ok, but i wanted to go fvck".. since its kino from god and all..

i agree with the other guy.. buying drinks isnt a big deal at all aslong as its not the first thing you say and youve been chilling/talking before hand.. or do it cos they ask you to do it.

 

[bachelor]

Buying girls drinks isn't the focus of my game. I like to feel them out and if they don't have a drink in their hand I may offer them one. I have also had situations where I did a role reversal and had the girl buy me a drink as well. It depends on the situation. If I am feeling the girl I don't mind buying a drink. Some of you on this forum think its a bad thing, but offering never hurts

 

[mrRuckus]

If a man is to stingy to buy a gal a drink, then I am just not interested at all.

Oh look another princess who thinks she's entitled to things and is such hot sh1t that a guy can't be without her. The next ass and t1ts over isn't such a b1tch, I'm sure. Holy crap! There's more than one girl in this bar!!!

But wait.. she's not really a b1tch. She's really full of all sorts of low self esteem with a rough exterior that pretends she's kicking back and watching the little monkey men perform for her attention. The slightest derogatory remark makes her all mad.. but she wonders.. is it true? Are they all laughing at me? "I hope he'll let me keep the lights off when we fvck."

Could there be a man in the bar that attracts me so much and i have no idea why and all my carefully packaged and spoonfed to me opinions from cosmo, oprah, and girl power hour pre-party are no longer my beliefs? No. Not possible. Until it happens. Fascade over.