"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i like this board! i am new and wonder if anyone knows how to tell if a married woman is willing to fool around? are there any subtle signs or indications to look for? and how do you approach her without offending her or fighting her husband?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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......................................................and this is his first post................................shocking






- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

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Originally posted by socrateaze
... how to tell if a married woman is willing to fool around? are there any subtle signs or indications to look for? and how do you approach her without offending her or fighting her husband?
You don't.
 

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my perspective

Stay away from married women, it is just not worth it

If you insist, however, here's my perspective:
There are three types of married women
1) Those who don't cheat
2) Those who do cheat, and pursue sex outside marriage
3) Those who are willing to cheat, but will give token resistance for a while so as not to feel like a total slut, i.e they will succumb eventually, but will not make it easy at first so they can soothe their consciences after by patting themselves on the back and saying "At least I put up a good fight."

Scratch number 1. Number two will let you know exactly what she wants. Number three takes time, according to how strong she is. Could be days or months.

The ideal conditions to seduce a married woman are:
1) You don't know her husband, and vice versa.
2) You don't live too close to her, and don't bump into her very often
3) She knows very little about you
4) She has no children
5) She doesn't see you as a 'real' person.

The last one is tough to explain, but that's it. You have to appeal to her sense of fantasy, of adventure. You have to be a mystery to her, a man who holds the promise of a sexual adventure. I'm sure someone else has covered this more in detail, but that's my take.
 

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The signs of attraction in a woman do not change when she becomes married. you can tell if she is attracted the same way you would be able to tell with any other woman.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Internet

Normally, I don't advocate online dating. However, I've found there are lots of married women that use IM to find sexual partners.

Some of them have limited availability and social lives. You need to be able to get free during the day when the husband is most likely working. Just remember, they cheat on him, they'll cheat on you too. DO NOT get serious with this kind of woman. Bad news from the start.
 

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Originally posted by socrateaze
i like this board! i am new and wonder if anyone knows how to tell if a married woman is willing to fool around? are there any subtle signs or indications to look for? and how do you approach her without offending her or fighting her husband?
I'm not going to give you the answer to this question, becaue the fact that you are willing to **** up someone's marriage makes you a complete ass. No offence (Well actually I do mean some offense), but you are the type of guy that makes this thing even harder for the AFCs that don't know about this message board or the game. Luckily, if you were dealing with my wife, you wouldn't have a chance.
Bros before hos man. You're literally RUINING someone's life. Think about it.

There are SO many other women out there, why on earth would you try and pick one up who would willingly CHEAT on her husband? That fact right there, makes her not worth your time.

Then again, the fact that you would HELP a woman like that, makes you a low-life as well...
 

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I agree.

There is plenty of single women out there. Why would you want a married one?

If you thought boyfriends got overly jealous and sometimes violent when dealing with scoundrels like you, just wait till you meet her HUSBAND.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by socrateaze
i like this board! i am new and wonder if anyone knows how to tell if a married woman is willing to fool around? are there any subtle signs or indications to look for? and how do you approach her without offending her or fighting her husband?
You should not try to mess with anyone's marriage.
 

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For your sake and hers, if her husband were to catch you, he might literally murder you. Catching a wife's lover will turn an average man into a murderer.
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
leave them alone
This thread and post make me laugh. Married women are the agressors.

But I agree, leave them be. It is they that won't leave you alone. Not all, but quite a few.
 

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Originally posted by crowes22
This thread and post make me laugh. Married women are the agressors.

But I agree, leave them be. It is they that won't leave you alone. Not all, but quite a few.
Yep, they are the agressors.
 

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obviously i made a mistake by asking this question. the fact is i thought this board was full of experienced heterosexual men. from the responses i recieved, i see that most ( not all ) of you are spineless wanna be's that dont have the balls to persue what you want and the focus to achieve a goal at all cost. your inability to overcome an obstacle because of societies imposed moral values has made me glad none of you worthless oxygen thieves were in my battalion when we encountered enemy combatants. those of you that responded negatively were probably the same ones that were at home polishing your nails and fixing your hair while the real men were dodging enemy fire so you could take your wimpy ass to the salon for your pedicure.

and for the few helpful responses to my inquiry........ thank you.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by socrateaze
i like this board! i am new and wonder if anyone knows how to tell if a married woman is willing to fool around? are there any subtle signs or indications to look for? and how do you approach her without offending her or fighting her husband?
It's all in how she looks at you - eye contact is everything. You treat them the same way you do other women, but you have to pay close attention to the eye contact they give you. Usually, women don't know how do hide their feelings.

Don't listen to the other guys or women on this board, marriage should only mean something to the people that are in it. If you want a married woman, make a move, but if she says no then move on.
 

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if she's willing to cheat with you.

she's just as willing to cheat with someone else.

--may as well be you tapping that..

i think i'd really get off on banging a married woman, but haven't done it as yet.

depending on age, i couldn't really give ya the best advice.

most married women i meet are my friends mums. and i wouldn't touch'em :)

but by all means, go for it.
 

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I can't have anything but disrespect for someone that pursues married women. For a few moments of lust you threaten to destroy a marriage, a family, a home, plus the lives of all involved specially the children.

real men have morals. You are a degenerate.
 

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Originally posted by socrateaze
obviously i made a mistake by asking this question. the fact is i thought this board was full of experienced heterosexual men. from the responses i recieved, i see that most ( not all ) of you are spineless wanna be's that dont have the balls to persue what you want and the focus to achieve a goal at all cost. your inability to overcome an obstacle because of societies imposed moral values has made me glad none of you worthless oxygen thieves were in my battalion when we encountered enemy combatants. those of you that responded negatively were probably the same ones that were at home polishing your nails and fixing your hair while the real men were dodging enemy fire so you could take your wimpy ass to the salon for your pedicure.

and for the few helpful responses to my inquiry........ thank you.
It takes balls to break up someone's marriage indeed. Good luck.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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