Tips On How To Handle First Dates?

[devilkingx2]

Also, I wanted to kiss her, but knew she wasn't that type of girl so I didn't try (she's a cop).

a girl who likes you wants to kiss you. a girl who doesn't like you does not

a girl who doesn't want to kiss a guy she actually likes to put up an act about how chaste she is or some other BS isn't a girl you want.

a legend once said, that if you're afraid to kiss a girl right now at this very moment, you're in the friend zone.

Too late. Think I know what happened. During our date I mentioned how a crazy chick was texting me at 7am and I thought it was rude.

The morning after our date, she texted me "it's 7:01 lol, I had fun with you". I told her I had fun and to have a good day. She texted again saying the same.

Then 5 days go by. I think due to my lack of communication, she thought I took her early morning text personally cause I mentioned how I didn't like that lady doing it and she is embarrassed or ashamed at herself. On day 5 I texted "good evening" no response. This morning I texted her again saying I'd like to see her again, no response. I don't want to push my luck anymore.

you didn't do anything wrong, she's just not interested and probably never was.

you didn't even get a kiss on the date, she didn't hit you up, and she's ignoring your texts, what does that sound like to you?

 

[ubercat]

If she's hot after 5 days she's probably had at least 5 guys hit on her. She might have forgotten what you look like.

I'm in the other camp I hit the Kino from the get go. I Greet them with a big flooding smile and a hug and then say I've got us drinks and lead them to the table. The key is being casual about touching a woman and that just comes from lots of dates.

I don't think it's better then the slowly slowly qualification type approach it just seems to fit my personality better.

From there I work in a bit of push pull so I don't come across as to thirsty. The problem I have is this works too well sometimes and I think I have lost the odd girl because she's had cognitive dissonance/ASD over us being hot and heavy on a first date.

So I'd suggest a bit of experimentation try the Kino approach and then try the aloof hands off approach and see which works best for you.

Don't be too hard on yourself you did well and it will take a little while to shake the rust off.

 

[soulforge]

I personally always go for the kiss.. always..

If she seems like quality or maybe a girl i could possibly date, then I will more than likely try not to fuk her on the first date..

If i sense she is game.. then I will try to bang her on first date..

If she is off POF then I just try to just bang her.. wouldn't consider dating her..

I sometimes just invite them straight to my house.. fuk meeting up, buying her drinks etc etc..

 

[ubercat]

If she's off POF bang her in the arse. The front entrance is going to be like an aircraft hangar.