I have a rule. I dont date chicks obsessed with:
Money,
Fashion
Feminism
..and i dont date them who are shabby, sloppy, lazy, ugly, fat, or stupid.
So there's a balance.
When you find someone who definitely is not overly materialistic, you've got a gold mine on your hands in reverse. She has a personality, perspective, and isnt a user. You want a flexible giver. Not a mall rat.
Here's some tips:
1. Emphasize personality, humor, attitude, but NOT possessions/cars/clothes when you first meet her. Do NOT try to impress her with your stuff. If she doesnt bite, next.
2. If youre meeting girls online, put NOT OVERLY MATERIALISTIC in the profile. Make her prove it first.
3. Dont do fancy dates at first. Do basic stuff. And of course, physical dates such as golf, parks, coffee, etc. If she EVER hints that youre cheap next.
4. See if she gives back. Cooks for you. Doesnt expect to eat out. If a girl cant cook, NEXT.
5. Despite not being rich, show her that you are a good dresser anyway (not flashy but solid). Show her that you can manage money. Show her that you cont waste money. See how she responds.
Guys, unless you're donald trump, you want a girl with simple needs.
End of story.
Dont be a sucker.
Money,
Fashion
Feminism
..and i dont date them who are shabby, sloppy, lazy, ugly, fat, or stupid.
So there's a balance.
When you find someone who definitely is not overly materialistic, you've got a gold mine on your hands in reverse. She has a personality, perspective, and isnt a user. You want a flexible giver. Not a mall rat.
Here's some tips:
1. Emphasize personality, humor, attitude, but NOT possessions/cars/clothes when you first meet her. Do NOT try to impress her with your stuff. If she doesnt bite, next.
2. If youre meeting girls online, put NOT OVERLY MATERIALISTIC in the profile. Make her prove it first.
3. Dont do fancy dates at first. Do basic stuff. And of course, physical dates such as golf, parks, coffee, etc. If she EVER hints that youre cheap next.
4. See if she gives back. Cooks for you. Doesnt expect to eat out. If a girl cant cook, NEXT.
5. Despite not being rich, show her that you are a good dresser anyway (not flashy but solid). Show her that you can manage money. Show her that you cont waste money. See how she responds.
Guys, unless you're donald trump, you want a girl with simple needs.
End of story.
Dont be a sucker.