"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tips on convo with gal with bf

PeterCrouch

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Guys just had a convo online with a gal from college, who has a bf, basically wanna know what you would of said in certain situations and stuff

k is her best freind btw and the gal i met her through

ME: hey there
Her: hiya
Her: how r u?
Me: im good but have a little headache tho, how about you?
Her im great
Her i aint seen u at college in ages
Me: i know, are you missing me?
Her of course
Her! do u fancy k?
Me lol bit random
Me but not really why?
Her! just wondering
Me! ok, well maybe i would if j wanst my mate, he'd kill me if i did lol
Her! lol
Me so what ya been up2?
Her not much just college u?
Me same, u in college tomorrow?
Me! what special talent do ya wish you had? lol
Her yeah im in college 2moz u?
Me not sure, maybe maybe not
Her ive reliased that i aint got no talent and every1 else has
Me lol are u good in bed? that could be your talent
Her lol
Her its not really a talent u could share with every1 is it
Me it could be
Her no i dont think so
Her u got a special talent
Me yeh im good in bed
Me! lol
Her! lol
Her! :-O
Her i thought u were a incent boy obviously not
Me what on earth made ya think that?
Her i dunno
Me lol
Me does kylie think i fancy her?
Her i dunno
Me lol kk, i think ur special talent could be smiling, yeh u have a nice smile
Her lol
Her i g2g now cya later
Her maybe at college if u can get ure lazy ass out of bed lol
Me lol only if ur lucky toodles xxx


Thats my convo with her, i know i could of improved in certain places and said something else, what would you of said? and how did i do?

cheers,

really trying not to become too afc and a little better at this whole thing with ****y and funny!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PeterCrouch

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Oh btw J is my mate who is k's best mate who he also really is in love with!

cheers if anyone could be arsed to read this

even bigger cheers for anyone with decent replys!
 

PeterCrouch

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oh the special talent thing wasnt just some random question her name was something about her wanting a special talent!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PeterCrouch

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i know but tell me how and where i could improve!

dont just tell me that i could improve explain!
 

PVSSY-EATER

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Man, this site is scamming the hell out of you guys.....haha

Keep doing techniques, they will get you...

FARRRRRRRRRRRRRR......so far that you will end up right back here saying, My girlfriend just dumped me, but I was a don juan around her! HAHAHAAHAHAHA
 

PeterCrouch

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i dont have any idea what your message means!

cannot actually understand any of it!
 

PVSSY-EATER

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And see Peter because that is the scam of this site. Look in the DJ Bible, look at all the articles, posts, threads, about seduction and everything.....if a guy from the world that was gettin puzzy came and seen this, he would laugh his azz off. Why spend so much time and energy into learning techniques.....women are simple. You want to know how, because they are human. Treat them and see them as that, and leave it at that. They are normal human beings, not the goddesses or princesses we have created them to be. Most posters on this site will not tell you that. They will teach you techniques, and tactics like ****y and funny, and be a challenge, a post a field report, and walk with your back straight, and all that mean absolutely nothing. The whole topic of women are overrated to me.....but hey, its just me...do what you want.

PVSSY EATER OUT
 

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ok i understand that, infact i agree with you, ive never understood how techniques and stuff will make her think "yeh he said that so he is allowed to shag me"

i know there just humans but i was just wondering how i could of took this convo on further?

mainly the bit where i said about her being good in bed and me being good in bed, coz after that i went blank didnt know what to say and for sum reason i went back to her freind!

what would you of done in this convo ***** eater?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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if the girl is in a good relationship with her boyfriend, you probably wont get too far anyway. If I where you id just forget it and keep her on the back burner and try to get somwhere every once in a while. dont even try to make her a priority she could just be flirting for fun. and that convo doesnt make much since. Also internet convos. You cant see facial expressions its a waste of the time for the most part.
 
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