Tips on approaching a girl in a group?

[void957]

So there is this girl I want to talk to in college but she almost always surrounded by like 4/5 friends. About 4 are guys and a few girls. So i was wondering what the best way is to get in there. Do i just go up and say hello to everyone and talk to them all, or do i just talk to her?

Keep in mind, i want to look dominant, not like a guy thats a *****, i want to dominate the group so theres no dude ****blocking me or trying to get me messed up.

My line would be something like " hey, pause , then say somethin like o ive seen u around thought i'd say hello". Then ask her a few questions and remain mysterious, get her number and leave.

dont give me some bull**** like " a dj does what he wants", no point in just doint what u want, why are there tips and guides nd ****? This is to just some ppl in the past whove said that

If you need more info let me know, im in college friday, so ive got time. Ill definitely see her friday in her usual crowd, just need a good way to break in and out.
thanks in advance bros.

 

[devilkingx2]

avoid it if you don't have to, don't bother if you don't know them all or the majority or at the very least a good relationship with the group leader

 

[Bingo-Player]

My line would be something like " hey, pause , then say somethin like o ive seen u around thought i'd say hello". Then ask her a few questions and remain mysterious, get her number and leave.

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no whatever you do , do not say that

its too scripted it sounds like you've spent about 3 weeks rehearsing it

in a situation like this you need to do some recon work , unless your a well known popular guy in college you cannot just go around approaching groups of people you will get labelled weird in a college environment

either start to get to know her indirectly ( i.e. make friends with her friends)

or find her name add her on Facebook and introduce yourself there , ( so you won't be a complete stranger when you see her next in college)

i had a similar situation to this when i was in college and i was pretty popular but just couldn't get this chicks attention

one day we where on the bus together with a couple of other people i knew and she started chatting to me turns out she knew exactly who i was

but i never showed her i wanted her attention

 

[skinnyguy]

Talk to the guys first

 

[BMX]

I'm pretty nasty when it comes to approaching groups comprised of just women. If it's in a club, bar or party I'll just go up and say stuff like "You all need to put your dam.n phones away. Let's go dance." No care here. I get a kick out of it. Every time.

 

[void957]

no whatever you do , do not say that

its too scripted it sounds like you've spent about 3 weeks rehearsing it

in a situation like this you need to do some recon work , unless your a well known popular guy in college you cannot just go around approaching groups of people you will get labelled weird in a college environment

either start to get to know her indirectly ( i.e. make friends with her friends)

or find her name add her on Facebook and introduce yourself there , ( so you won't be a complete stranger when you see her next in college)

i had a similar situation to this when i was in college and i was pretty popular but just couldn't get this chicks attention

one day we where on the bus together with a couple of other people i knew and she started chatting to me turns out she knew exactly who i was

but i never showed her i wanted her attention

True words spoken.
But ive been eyein this girl for weeks now, i mean i have to make the approach at some point, i cant afford to wait and expect our friendship groups to merge out of nowhere. Aint got time for that. IVe been thru a lot of situations where i got to know the girl i wanted to talk to thru other friends but nothing ever happened, why? because i was introduced as another friends for another friend. Not as an attractive guy who wants to date her.

Also i saw a quote on here the other day which said " the direct approach is usually the best, the same way cut a tree one time and dont beat it around the bushes first. " so yeh, making friends with her friends will be really hard bc she only has one group of friends, so even if i wanted to make freinds with ehr friends she would be there anyway and she would probbly clockon bc weve made eye contact a few times.

I must take action tomorrow.

I will also change my line, and just ask for her name and where she is from instead.


Also i dont know her name , or anything about her, just her face. As for being popular, i do know alot of people in college, like ALOT, but she only has like 5/6 close friends but still , there are no friendship groups that overlap with hers, i wouldve noticed by now. So im going to have to dive in one time and just go for it.

Sometimes a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do , and to **** with what people think. How else u gnna make friends and get the girls u want if u dont approach?