"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tips for the traveling man

Mazeman11

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My work requires me to travel quite often on business trips.

Traveling all over the US, mostly by myself has changed me quite a bit.

It has become easy to talk to people (especially women). Now it comes natural and I don't even think about it. My conversation skills has improved a lot and I can stretch a conversation for as long as I want.

Still, traveling can also be a lonely experience. You get to see a lot of beautiful and interesting places but you are not sharing the experiences with anyone.

Share your knowledge for the traveling man who would like to meet more people (preferably women) and have a good time. Any tips appreciated.
 

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Wait, wait, wait. You want to meet more women, yet share the experience of doing so with a woman? Sounds good. I mean, I don't think you know what you're asking, but- I think all you're asking is how to I meet women? Or is it how do I get married and drag a lady around with me?

Instead, I'll answer the question I want to answer. Keep traveling and meeting women WHEREVER. Sleep with them, ask them on dates, whatever. Keep a personal book filled with the many numbers so you'll always have someone(s) to call. Jeez, that would be awesome. You're lucky man. You can hang out with ladies then skip town, not necesarily being premiscuous, but you have so much room to play the field.
 

Mazeman11

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I'm not getting married any time soon.

So yes, you're answer was on the right track. Do you go walking around town looking while traveling? What kind of attitude do you carry around?
 
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