Create Reality
Master Don Juan
THESE, are the kind of good tips I stick around for. 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Tips for Success
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- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
read it and learn boys
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Excellent stuff. This is on another level to the usual crap posted on here.
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good stuff man!
TheMainMan
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H2O this is one of the best posts I have read in a long time.
Really hit home of what I need to do.
I love the treat life as a game mentality.
Really hit home of what I need to do.
I love the treat life as a game mentality.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
B-Lemond
Master Don Juan
It's strange how H20 was a troll and was banned, yet he makes a 5 star post.
thefonz
Master Don Juan
He banned himself because he felt he was coming to the site too much
I still email him on a regular basis, a really motivating guy
I still email him on a regular basis, a really motivating guy
thefonz
Master Don Juan
bump
Still one of my favs
Still one of my favs
ADifferentKindofDJ
Don Juan
Great post but...
This is one of the great things abou this site. Someone takes all that is here and puts it in to perspective! I've been thinking about the stuff that I've learned here and noticed a change in the way I think. Finding a woman to open up, pull a number, and get a date isn't the hard part. That's the easy part... The hard part is making the next step in your life.
We could all sit around writing posts for this or that, but in the end we have to go out and create our own life. The best thing I ever got out of this site is the fact that no matter what happens you could end up alone. So if/when that happens where do you want to be? Even when you're with someone you still need to grow as you, because if that stops then you get boring, frustrated and cump like. That's what an afc really is. It's not someone who lets a woman run them, it's a guy who stops growing and becoming what he is to be.
This is where I disagree with one thing in this post. We can all make it. We all have the potential to find that woman. The fact that there are more women than men on this plants helps us with that. I think the real point here is that not all of us will grow past the blocks in our lives to get to that point.
There's a lot of great and solid info in this post excellent job h2o
ADKdj
This is one of the great things abou this site. Someone takes all that is here and puts it in to perspective! I've been thinking about the stuff that I've learned here and noticed a change in the way I think. Finding a woman to open up, pull a number, and get a date isn't the hard part. That's the easy part... The hard part is making the next step in your life.
We could all sit around writing posts for this or that, but in the end we have to go out and create our own life. The best thing I ever got out of this site is the fact that no matter what happens you could end up alone. So if/when that happens where do you want to be? Even when you're with someone you still need to grow as you, because if that stops then you get boring, frustrated and cump like. That's what an afc really is. It's not someone who lets a woman run them, it's a guy who stops growing and becoming what he is to be.
This is where I disagree with one thing in this post. We can all make it. We all have the potential to find that woman. The fact that there are more women than men on this plants helps us with that. I think the real point here is that not all of us will grow past the blocks in our lives to get to that point.
There's a lot of great and solid info in this post excellent job h2o
ADKdj
kickureface
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props to h20 if hes still out there somewhere
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
typical
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Sticky this thread please.
Quiksilver
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bump, awwesome post
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h2o said:
HERE HERE!!
I've been saying it several times in my own postings and even posted a poll about it. Should our goal be to score with whatever woman happens to be in a receptive frame of mind on that particular day and time? Or should or goal be to use what we're learning to achieve a LTR with a woman of OUR choosing?
IMHO, Next-ing women left and right because they won't put out is pointless. You haven't really achieved anything. IMHO, if you can use your people-skills, for want of a better term, to get with a girl that most men would Next, you've really accomplished something.
Hi people - it's Interesting stuff. This is my first post, I am Don Juan virgin, so be gentle with me,,, !!
I agree with the balance stuff, espeically getting to addicted to the internet and forums. Hello - it's not real, that's why it's called cyberspace.
On personal level, I have been there, hooked on chat rooms, forums and the likes. Spent many hours in fornt of this very screen until one day, I stayed up all night just chatting to my cyber friends when it it dawned on me - Literally. The first shafts of light of new day streamed through the window at about 4.20 am. I had wasted ten hours talking utter rubbish to people I didn't really know and were unlikely to ever meet. This was a real wake up call for me.
Now I limit my myself to half hour a day hooked up to the net. This includes e-mails too. By the time I have had a look at the local news, whats on, the next day's weather and answered a couple of e-mails my time is up and I close my connection for another day.
I lived 38 years without e-mails, chatrooms and the internet and can quite easily survive without it again. I also turn off my cell phone in the evenings and weekends. Again I survived nearly 40 years without one, and only have one because work insists I have one. Another waste of time is the televison. I limit my viewing hours and only watch the news and a few films a week.
So what do I with all this free time I have created. Well, I have started on two new hobbies - writing and photography and now do it freelance, which means I have cut my hours down to three days a week at work to give me more free time to write and get out taking images.
My life is more in balance now. I seem to have loads of time to do what I enjoy - I have life. And on a plus side - my photography lead to local art gallery wanting to display my images in a display. Following a launch night party and exposue in the local newspapers I now have women seeking me out. They chase me - fantastic !! A few years ago, couldn't even get one to give me a second look, so I sort comfort from the internet and made friends with all the other millions of sad loosers like me on here looking for attention.
So, finish reading this, log out and get out and get a life. This is not real. The people are not real. Nothing can beat a real interaction with a real person - hot babe or not. Forget myspace, all the porn and friends re-united - start living, find a real woman, have real sex - cybersex sucks, badly !!
Life is a lottery and you don't know when your number is going to be called. It could be today, next week, in a few years or you could live to 99.
I agree with the balance stuff, espeically getting to addicted to the internet and forums. Hello - it's not real, that's why it's called cyberspace.
On personal level, I have been there, hooked on chat rooms, forums and the likes. Spent many hours in fornt of this very screen until one day, I stayed up all night just chatting to my cyber friends when it it dawned on me - Literally. The first shafts of light of new day streamed through the window at about 4.20 am. I had wasted ten hours talking utter rubbish to people I didn't really know and were unlikely to ever meet. This was a real wake up call for me.
Now I limit my myself to half hour a day hooked up to the net. This includes e-mails too. By the time I have had a look at the local news, whats on, the next day's weather and answered a couple of e-mails my time is up and I close my connection for another day.
I lived 38 years without e-mails, chatrooms and the internet and can quite easily survive without it again. I also turn off my cell phone in the evenings and weekends. Again I survived nearly 40 years without one, and only have one because work insists I have one. Another waste of time is the televison. I limit my viewing hours and only watch the news and a few films a week.
So what do I with all this free time I have created. Well, I have started on two new hobbies - writing and photography and now do it freelance, which means I have cut my hours down to three days a week at work to give me more free time to write and get out taking images.
My life is more in balance now. I seem to have loads of time to do what I enjoy - I have life. And on a plus side - my photography lead to local art gallery wanting to display my images in a display. Following a launch night party and exposue in the local newspapers I now have women seeking me out. They chase me - fantastic !! A few years ago, couldn't even get one to give me a second look, so I sort comfort from the internet and made friends with all the other millions of sad loosers like me on here looking for attention.
So, finish reading this, log out and get out and get a life. This is not real. The people are not real. Nothing can beat a real interaction with a real person - hot babe or not. Forget myspace, all the porn and friends re-united - start living, find a real woman, have real sex - cybersex sucks, badly !!
Life is a lottery and you don't know when your number is going to be called. It could be today, next week, in a few years or you could live to 99.