"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tips for short guys

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since any of you under 5'8" are already at a distinct disadvantage with women, you better make sure you atleast have a handsome face or a ripped body or you ain't hooking up with no hotties.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tom Cruise is 5' 7". Never stopped him...or Prince.
 

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mahon83050 said:
since any of you under 5'8" are already at a distinct disadvantage with women, you better make sure you atleast have a handsome face or a ripped body or you ain't hooking up with no hotties.
How is this a tip? Are you saying workout and wash your face to clear zits? I can see that.

A better tip would have been to maybe start talking to alot of women and develop your personality.

"You aint hooking up with no hotties" is kinda of a negative outlook on things, people would read this and be like oh man i'm short so just screw it. Maybe more positivness from now on.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this from a "master don juan" are you friggin kidding me? i'm 5'7 and can pull/flirt with girls taller than me constantly.. hell i even had for a short while a g/f that was 6'4 so don't spout off crap that has no bearing against a man AT ALL.

do not listen to this blithering idiot guys.. being short has no effect on your game at all be confident stand tall and game on.
 

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Mctwist4 said:
4. There ARE ways to grow a few inches more if you really want to and are dedicated. Go to www.giantscientific.com.
No, there aren't. This is one of those cases where if something like that actually existed, the general public would know about it, and short celebrities would use it. I haven't heard of Rob Schneider sprouting an extra four inches lately, have you? Why would Tom Cruise settle for staying 5'7 if he didn't have to?
 

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Height does not matter! trust me. I am not saying this to be the good guy, Im talking from experience.
 

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mahon83050 said:
What about guys who are 5'5" and under then? Ever go to short person support on the web and read about all those short guys who women won't even look at?
Oh my ****ing god, people just get out a try the stuff. For the love of god or your family try to talk to women, they DO NOT GIVE A **** ABOUT HOW TALL YOU ARE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Women are based on emotions. Study David DeAengelo, Mystery, ect. (pickup artists attraction atrists) then come back and talk about height.

Just study.....your not at a disadvantage because of a stupid height concept. I have a friend who is 5'7 and more succesful than me. I get plenty of older women, younger, my age, ect... hitting on me and he is just outrageous with em, he surpasses me. Just try the stuff.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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mahon83050 said:
What about guys who are 5'5" and under then? Ever go to short person support on the web and read about all those short guys who women won't even look at?
let me say again, i'm 5'7 and have pulled girls taller than me at one time i even pulled a girl that was 6'4 almost a foot taller than me, that's a HUGE difference in height
 

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Most girls put out nowadays to anything with two legs and a d1ck.
 

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This is ridiculous. I have a friend who has slept with anywhere between 75-100 women now. He's 5'6. No doubt, he's a good looking guy, he takes good care of himself, but it's not his looks that get him women. He's a really charismatic and funny guy, and he goes after what he wants. And most of the women he gets are pretty damn hot.
 

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My boyfriend is 5'4, maybe 5'5 with shoes on. I'm 5'8.

What attracts me to him instead of to the 6'2 guys?

1. He has good posture
2. He dresses well (Not expensively, but he always wears clothes that fit or gets them tailored to his size)
3. He works out everyday and has almost 0% body fat, keeps in good shape, and can throw me over his shoulder if he feels like it
4. He has confidence and self-worth, and stands up for himself
5. He has a maturity that all the tall boys I've met lacked
6. He's very intelligent and exercises his brain as much as he exercises his body
7. He's very outgoing

Height is no excuse.
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
3. He works out everyday and has almost 0% body fat, keeps in good shape, and can throw me over his shoulder if he feels like it
Height is no excuse.
Your boyfriend is a joke because 0% bodyfat is dead. I am in good shape and I have 5.1% bf.

I find your list to be pretty good.

BTW agreed with your "Height is no excuse."

A common theme in this site is not to make excuses. I have seen short guys pull tons of hot girls and I have seen tons of tall guys get nothing at all but their right hands. It all matters.

My best frend is 5'5" and he has knocked big city boys on their asses for trying to start sh!t. He gets tons of tail. If you embody inner game then that will make up for the outer problems.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mctwist4 said:
This is no magic pill that makes you grow a fantastic four inches. I'm talking maybe an inch or two with hard work. I have no cases of scientific studies that prove whether the methods on that site truly work or not other than what people say on the forums of that site and the links to other sites that they provide. I can prove your argument wrong though. This is not "one of those cases where if something like that actually existed, the general public would know about it, and short celebrities would use it." There are surgeries that are PROVEN to make you taller however celebrities aren't necesarrily jumping at the idea. Homeopathic medicines work very well for many people, however for a long time the general public had no idea they even existed. This is not one of the cases you describe. How do you even know celebrities aren't using any of these methods...? Exactly, you don't.
Heightening surgeries are no secret. But nobody does them because they're really expensive and have you in a wheelchair for several months. And the efficacy of homeopathy is not proven.
 

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mahon83050 said:
since any of you under 5'8" are already at a distinct disadvantage with women, you better make sure you atleast have a handsome face or a ripped body or you ain't hooking up with no hotties.

Don't talk absolute CRAP!....is this what sosuave has come to now?..
 

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comic_relief said:
Your boyfriend is a joke because 0% bodyfat is dead. I am in good shape and I have 5.1% bf.

I find your list to be pretty good.

BTW agreed with your "Height is no excuse."

A common theme in this site is not to make excuses. I have seen short guys pull tons of hot girls and I have seen tons of tall guys get nothing at all but their right hands. It all matters.

My best frend is 5'5" and he has knocked big city boys on their asses for trying to start sh!t. He gets tons of tail. If you embody inner game then that will make up for the outer problems.

comic_relief
Why were they trying to start ****?
 

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Why were they trying to start ****?
they were trying to start sh!t because they were drunk and trying to steal one of the girls that he was going out with. Plus, he was trying to p!ss off everyone. So my friend shut him the fvck up by kicking their @$$. Yeah, every girl wanted to get with him at that point.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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