"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tips for meeting elder women.

Leopold

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I have been thinking of joining this socializing group on Friday at a bar. Now I have checked and it seems that the age demography there is pretty much between late 20s-30s.

I think I can use this to my advantage since I'm well refined in the looks department compared to the competition of average looking guys in their 30s.

I'm definitely not going to let no one know I'm 21 since its none of their business in their first place but yes what are some tips I could use to romance one of these vixens. I'll try to be as sexual as possible and will look my best.

I really would love to have myself a sugar mama, specially if she's hot.

In general, I'm just curious if there's some things I should know so it doesn't put me in any disadvantage.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eddiedelgado

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One of the top things that any older woman is looking for is a man that makes her happy. She has dated the losers and jerks, and she doesn’t want the drama, fights, or confusion that those men tend to bring into her life. At this point in her life, she wants a man who understands her needs and wants. She wants someone to treat her right, make her laugh, respect her, and be there for her when she needs a shoulder to lean on. If you can do this, then you will make any older woman happy.

Learn How To Pleasure Them

Yes, I’m talking about pleasuring her in the bedroom. You can make her as happy as you want outside of it, but if your skills in the bedroom are lacking, then your chances of keeping an older woman are slim. There are many books written by women on how to pleasure a woman in bedroom. Take that knowledge that you learn and put it to good use when you are with a woman. If you act confident in your knowledge, then a woman will feel confident about your approach. The great thing about older women is that they are more inclined to tell you exactly how to do things in the bedroom. All you have to do is listen to them and do your best with confidence. This is definitely one of the best tips on how to attract older women and keep them!
 

PapiChulo

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If I were you I would be going for 18-19 year olds. There is always time to enjoy 30+ and I don't see much of the allure either.
 

thevilittletroll

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the key to seducing older women is get them to have fun. they want the experience of feeling younger. second you must be confident in your ability in the bedroom. if she thinks for one second that you are inexperienced, she'll write you off. you must show some form of pre selection. the flirting process is pretty easy with cougars, they are pretty open to it cause they just want to get laid. and for the most part its pretty easy to see when a cougar is into you. they tend to be very aggressive when it comes to initiating kino on you. you can be a little more ****y and talk openly about past conquests, lots of sexual conversation, be more direct, and state your intentions. tell her you find her sexy, and the naughty things you want to do to her. dont make age an issue. she needs to know your comfortable with it. tell her you prefer a more mature woman who knows what she wants.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bokanovsky

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One important tip is to know the difference between 'older' and 'elder'. The latter refers to the elderly people. I have a feeling that chicks in their late 20s might take some offence to being called elders...lol
 

yuppaz

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To hook up with the elderly, bring some extra denture cream with you and learn to dance the watoosie....bring plenty of lube and make sure she gives you a gum job to get you goin...No teeth = awesome head (but a little dry)
 

DavenJuan

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Your approach should tailor to you specifically. Dont look at your age as a burden, but more as an advantage. I dont think you need to TRY and come off anymore sexual as you naturally are. Efforts to do so will come off looking desperate and uncoming.

I also would try to moderate the "FUN" to a degree. Because of your age, if you are ALL ABOUT FUN, it is easily confused for immature. Be yourself, and find a way to be intriguing. Make yourself seen and heard, while at the same time leaving something to be desired.


Most late 20, early 30 year old women have played the dating scene enough to know what they want. Or atleast have convinced themselves they do. I think you have a advantage of being the young guy, play that card brother, i think it may help you more than you think.
 
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