Daniel1099
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anybody wana help a brother out?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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anybody wana help a brother out?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dannyrt34
Master Don Juan
Where do you live? Cause I never see guys dress like that around here, unless their gay.
Bewildered Soliloquy
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What kind of advice exactly are you looking for?
I'm not feeling the sweater. It looks like the shoulders sag and the sleeves look a tad short. It also seems too long, but I can't really tell. Overall the idea is not bad, but the shirt kills it - I would definitely close some more buttons (all but the top one).
I can't tell what kind of pants you're wearing, but if you want a cheap recommendation; go cop a pair of Levi 511s (slim fit) in either dark indigo or black. Note: solid colour!!!! No cheesy washes/sick fades. Also, avoid light blue etc. like the plague. Be sure to get the right size as they stretch with wear (i.e. the size where you can barely close the button at first). Rock some black oxfords and a black leather belt and the lower part of your body is sorted.
As for tops, I recommend sticking with the "button-up + something" idea for this season. Get basic sweaters and cardigans in black/grey/white (or earth tones). By basic I mean no graphics and no logos and the like. Raid your local H&M. What to avoid: zip-ups, hoodies, graphic tees. And is that what I think it is? A left hand with no watch? Go get yourself a nice one!
Also, this doesn't look gay in the slightest. You can worry about looking gay when you start wearing purple skinny jeans and pink chucks. Girls can tell when a man is well dressed, and with good fitting items this look can be classified as 'well dressed'. This definitely gives you a one-up on guys in oversized plaid shirts and cheesy ironic graphic tees.
Tip: google styleforum and find the What are you wearing now thread in Streetwear & denim.
I'm not feeling the sweater. It looks like the shoulders sag and the sleeves look a tad short. It also seems too long, but I can't really tell. Overall the idea is not bad, but the shirt kills it - I would definitely close some more buttons (all but the top one).
I can't tell what kind of pants you're wearing, but if you want a cheap recommendation; go cop a pair of Levi 511s (slim fit) in either dark indigo or black. Note: solid colour!!!! No cheesy washes/sick fades. Also, avoid light blue etc. like the plague. Be sure to get the right size as they stretch with wear (i.e. the size where you can barely close the button at first). Rock some black oxfords and a black leather belt and the lower part of your body is sorted.
As for tops, I recommend sticking with the "button-up + something" idea for this season. Get basic sweaters and cardigans in black/grey/white (or earth tones). By basic I mean no graphics and no logos and the like. Raid your local H&M. What to avoid: zip-ups, hoodies, graphic tees. And is that what I think it is? A left hand with no watch? Go get yourself a nice one!
Also, this doesn't look gay in the slightest. You can worry about looking gay when you start wearing purple skinny jeans and pink chucks. Girls can tell when a man is well dressed, and with good fitting items this look can be classified as 'well dressed'. This definitely gives you a one-up on guys in oversized plaid shirts and cheesy ironic graphic tees.
Tip: google styleforum and find the What are you wearing now thread in Streetwear & denim.
Vice
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how come no one mentioned www.kinowear.com yet?
bornyesterday
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Flatten the hair. You already have a long face, it makes it look longer. The sweater makes you look like a frat guy.
You're a bit skinny. Solution: eat more and workout
You're a bit skinny. Solution: eat more and workout
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Captain Harlock
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I think the v-neck is just too much.
nismo-4
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Lose the sweater. You look like a tri-lambda.
Google some hot fashions or watch what people playing rock/ metal music wear.
Google some hot fashions or watch what people playing rock/ metal music wear.
i think the sweater's pretty cool, and i know lots of girls that would think so too.
i'd say wear what you want, as long as you're comfortable with it then who cares what anyone else thinks?
its good to wear different stuff
don't follow the trends if they're not for you
i'd say wear what you want, as long as you're comfortable with it then who cares what anyone else thinks?
its good to wear different stuff
don't follow the trends if they're not for you