Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Check out this vid I recorded and posted to my twitter page a few weeks ago. Enjoy!
http://www.twitvid.com/0D670
http://www.twitvid.com/0D670
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
TIPS for going to the CLUB ALONE (aka "Going Dolo")
- Thread starter Your_Royal_Flyness
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
HolyTrinity
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never heard of dolo but i go to the club alone all the time.
first thing i do is go to the bar get a beer and chill start talkin to people who cares if its creepy beter than being by yourself and u prolly wont see the people at the club during the day. i've gotten a few dates from girls going alone, super easy to get phone numbers. break the ice with a girl by offering her a drink whatever she wants. then just start chatting and hope she likes you.
first thing i do is go to the bar get a beer and chill start talkin to people who cares if its creepy beter than being by yourself and u prolly wont see the people at the club during the day. i've gotten a few dates from girls going alone, super easy to get phone numbers. break the ice with a girl by offering her a drink whatever she wants. then just start chatting and hope she likes you.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
Scrap the drink.HolyTrinity said:
You're literally trying to buy a conversation, conversations should be free; they're priceless!
Your talk is worth more than the cost of a drink.
I've always hated guys buying girls a drink, do it another way man.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
Hey man your video actually gave really realistic advice.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
You sound so authentic.
Good so see an experienced new face here.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
KillaPetehog said:
You're only as creepy as you feel and as you appear. If you are uncomfortable in your skin, you will forever appear and be creepy. Wingmen are cool, but a real player hunts alone, IMO.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Accension
Senior Don Juan
Let's say for example, you have no friends.java01 said:
Let's say for example, your friends are busy or aren't up for it.
You can only depend on yourself man.
The Educator
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Trying to quote correctly, see below
The Educator
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Aren't you the guy talking about how much you love fat chicks in another thread? Maybe you could try buying your ladies sandwiches instead.HolyTrinity said:
elpasorichard
Don Juan
I have always preferred clubbing alone. If I don't like the club, and decide I want to go somewhere else, I don't need the consensus of anyone else. If I meet a girl, and want to leave and go to her place or mine, I don't need to worry about someone else having a ride. If I go with someone like you who don't like being alone, I don't have to worry about leaving them alone. (Although I have never went out with someone who cared about going to the club alone) If I am tired, and just feel like going home, I don't need the consensus of anyone else.
The question is not why you would go to the club alone, but why would you prefer to take someone else?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
Agreed. It is perfectly fine MEETING your friends at the club. At most of the places I frequent, most times I'll run into a few buddies. But as was mentioned earlier, a real man hunts alone...that is unless you aren't interested in bringing ladies home with you.elpasorichard said:
If you AND your buddy are looking to meet two cute women, you are fighting an uphill battle. The chances that ALL FOUR of you will be happy with each other is rare. Usually SOMEONE agrees to "take the L" aka "take one for the team." So unnecessary.
So as elpasorichard said "why would you prefer to take someone else?"
Unbridled_Phoenix
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Then you're going to the wrong club.56andre said:
I almost always hunt alone. Did James Bond need a wingman?
Whenever I went to the club with my buddies, we never obligated one another to each other. If we operated togeather in the bar we always left the option open of leaving alone with her.
Everyone had a means to break away when/if needed.
Everyone had a means to break away when/if needed.
Your_Royal_Flyness
Don Juan
56andre said:
What kind of clubs do you go to?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Only ‘some’ nightclubs, there’s some instances were it’s not logical to go solo unless you are an extreme tough guy or are a master of some sort of martial arts.Your_Royal_Flyness said:
What kind of clubs do you go to?
Well if you are a true DJ or player, there are always some envious player haters who will want you dead because of jealousy (and sometimes they can be a friend!) and since all in this site is aiming to be this guy, I think it’s appropriate to bring it up!
Specifically what clubs are you talking about???
I assumed nightclubs.
Heretolearn
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I really like your style. Thanks for the videos!Your_Royal_Flyness said:
Ran into this last night, out at a trendy bar saw some girls went and talked with them, they asked who I was with, said I was solo, she says "Wow, you're brave", I played that up like a motherf*cker.KillaPetehog said:
Right now I have no choice but to roll solo, however, it is improving my game I think when I do expand my social group in Denver, I'm going to blowing away a lot of my wingmen.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.