"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Daddy The Pimp

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Ok , so u got this girls number , now u wanna call her on date .

DONT

If she didnt invest on you and if she's not attracted to you yet calling her on date is not good choice .

For me , i usually have a place that i go with my friends and have fun .
And i would say to her like : heey watzup , im going with my friends here and if u wanna come we'll meet there .

Is better , cuz shows that ur having fun even if she's coming or not ..
And even if they appear sometimes they wanna act like b!tches , and not give u the attention that u deserve . So u can just forget about them and continue having fun .

( ex: ive been on date with some girls that put theyre fvcking phone from theyre pocket and pretending to be so much loved by guys :box: - this is really annoying )

So when they do now something like not giving me attention i just move on ..

And i usually call 3-4 different girls at the same club .. It gives more social proof and they see that im not desperate , that im not needy .

If they wanna act like b!tches , i move on to other girls .
Now they wanna come back :D , but ill go talk to tham after 30 minutes or so .

Trust me is priceless to see theyre face when they are looking at you and you are with other girls having fun , making them laugh and these things ..

This shows that ur : 1.Preselected 2.Fun to be with 3.Not Needy 4.Loved by everyone .

This automatically disqualify you from the group of - HES THAT GUY THAT IM PLAYING WITH AND USING TO MAKE JEALOUS SOMEONE BLLA BLLA BLLA .

This puts you on the group - HES THE GUY IM HAVING FUN WITH , HE'S SO GOOD , LOVED BY EVERYONE AND VERY INTERESTING .

So when u go in first date , call them to YOUR PLACE ( place that u have friends , other girls waiting for you ) and get IoI before making any move .

If they dont give u attention that u deserve just .. MOVE ON .. Let them for about 30 min. than go to them again .. but in these 30 min. go to other set ( that u called ) and have fun with them , make them laugh and these things ..and when u get back to them you will see the difference .




PS: HOPE U GET THE POINT AND UNDERSTAND WHAT I SAID CUZ ENGLISH IS NOT MY NATIVE LANGUAGE
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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it all depends on the previous situation, like how did you get her number. how much raport did you built etc.
what your saying is all good but not in every case
 

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Hello, this was the right thing that you have done. I don’t think that you were wrong.
All the best!
 

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Daddy, this is Good Advice, but why here in the Mature Men's forum?
Shoudn't this be in the DJ Tips?

Also, if you WANT to post here, you must post your age in your profile.



Good luck on your journey.





Interceptor
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Interceptor said:
Daddy, this is Good Advice, but why here in the Mature Men's forum?
Shoudn't this be in the DJ Tips?

Also, if you WANT to post here, you must post your age in your profile.



Good luck on your journey.





Interceptor
Thanks bro , this thread is posted on DJ TIPS .. And im watching this thread from Don Juan Tips . I dont know maybe there is error on your computer .

And i dont think this thread is for mature man +25-30 . Maybe it works but i dont know ..

Peace :up:
 

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OK, I must've thought I was in the mature section when I looked this up.

Well, cool then No Problemo!

good work!
 

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God, it sounds like you date some real b*tches! A little social prescreening should help with that.
 

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fertileTurtle said:
God, it sounds like you date some real b*tches! A little social prescreening should help with that.
ditto

of course ignoring is a biiig help but if she comes *****y just leave her

you are the great catch not her
dont forget you are an DJ not an ****ing needy guy who needs her attention

plus she is in your place that means that she usually doenst know much ppl so she will talk with your friends and if you are not going to ignore her too much she will have a good time and maybe come back
 
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