"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tips for decorating my room

Volpez

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I have a decent sized room and a king bed. I want to get some wall paintings, and repaint it all. I want it to be something a girl will feel comfy in and romantic. Any suggestions?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I suck at this kind of stuff but it makes a huge difference when it comes to bringing women back to your pad. Don't make it look like a typical bachelor pad. Get a female to help you decorate or a metrosexual male friend.
 

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Volpez said:
I have a decent sized room and a king bed. I want to get some wall paintings, and repaint it all. I want it to be something a girl will feel comfy in and romantic. Any suggestions?
Some nice framed impressionist prints should do it. You can purchase them on E-bay for very cheap. Last year I purchased 10 and gave them away as gifts for friends who just got new places. They loved them and look fantastic. Cheers!
 

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Get some candles that sit on those wire stands.

Some chics dig disco balls and mirrors.
 

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if you're at the point where a girl is in your bedroom alone with you, i wouldn't give two ****s of how my room looked like. As long as you're room isn't a total **** hole, having a mattress with clean sheets is enough to get the panties dropped ;)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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We used to have an apartment back in my college days where my boys and I decorated it very nicely and stocked it with nice furniture. It was very masculine but "nice". Not your normal college apartment. Let me tell you, every woman that came through the door the first thing out of their mouth was, wow this is really nice you guys have style and good tastes!

Just like its good to dress nicely when attracting a mate, you should make your pad nice when attracting a mate.
 

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Tear Gas said:
if you're at the point where a girl is in your bedroom alone with you, i wouldn't give two ****s of how my room looked like. As long as you're room isn't a total **** hole, having a mattress with clean sheets is enough to get the panties dropped ;)
This is true, my buddy is a total slob and his room is a pigsty, by that point, the attraction is already there and they spread their legs regardless.

The rest of the house as howie said can make a huge difference.
 
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