"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Tips for dating an older woman 27/32

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alx

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Is there any big difference in how to act or is it different for every woman?

E.g. if she's dating a younger guy is she expecting me to be more forward and phsyical? Is there anything I can keep in mind to up my game in this kind of situation? Are older women always bad news?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Duke

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Proceed just like you would with someone your own age.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

AlphaNate

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Older women are easier, in my opinion. Could just be how they react to me, though.

Treat her the same as any other girl, but you can be playful with the age factor. Push by asking her if she needs help walking somewhere so she doesn't break a hip. Pull by telling her she can't be more than [10 years less than her age] when/if she does bring up her age. Both should get a punch in the arm.

It's mostly the same, but you have some fun extra angles to play with.
 
bigneil

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How old are you?

She'll probably laugh at you but if you are lucky she will be desperate and will use you for sex.

Will she have to pay for drinks?
 
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