TheMonkeyKing
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Tips for banging on first date...
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Very Simple, i'll give you a bunch.
You meet up with her kiss her on her cheek and hugg her.
You put your hand on her back when you open the door for her and when you guys sit down.
You touch her often during the date. When you talk, when you laugh, when you explaining something. Touch her on her arm, shoulder, back. When you excuse yourself and go to the toilet touch her knee or pinch her softly above her knee and go.
Grab her hand out of the blue, look at her rings and ask who got them for her. (if shes in2 you she wont mention any guys, only her aunt, mother, friend whatever)
Look in her eyes often and a lot and ask a lot of questions and let her blablabla. Look at her lips when she talks and whisper in her ears when its noisey. At that certain point when you want to kiss her bend over towards her whisper in her ears, smell her neck and go for the kiss. Kino heavily when you kiss her.
Or grab her hand and pull her towards you and smell her neck and kiss or go for the kiss directly.
Then it's easy, make out with her and suggest a drink at your place. Or in the car.
Just do all this subtle, and start lightly and turn it up every time a bit.
1+1=2 goodluck
You meet up with her kiss her on her cheek and hugg her.
You put your hand on her back when you open the door for her and when you guys sit down.
You touch her often during the date. When you talk, when you laugh, when you explaining something. Touch her on her arm, shoulder, back. When you excuse yourself and go to the toilet touch her knee or pinch her softly above her knee and go.
Grab her hand out of the blue, look at her rings and ask who got them for her. (if shes in2 you she wont mention any guys, only her aunt, mother, friend whatever)
Look in her eyes often and a lot and ask a lot of questions and let her blablabla. Look at her lips when she talks and whisper in her ears when its noisey. At that certain point when you want to kiss her bend over towards her whisper in her ears, smell her neck and go for the kiss. Kino heavily when you kiss her.
Or grab her hand and pull her towards you and smell her neck and kiss or go for the kiss directly.
Then it's easy, make out with her and suggest a drink at your place. Or in the car.
Just do all this subtle, and start lightly and turn it up every time a bit.
1+1=2 goodluck
I d add
-- ask her logistics questions '...do u live nearby...'. That will help to weed out the ones who
aren't DTF
-- use micro dates - take her to a few different places on the same night. it's an old pua trick that makes them feel like they have known you for longer. helps to get around their ASD
Go with all these tips and you'll be listening to them saying how they don't normally do this while they re riding your dik
-- ask her logistics questions '...do u live nearby...'. That will help to weed out the ones who
aren't DTF
-- use micro dates - take her to a few different places on the same night. it's an old pua trick that makes them feel like they have known you for longer. helps to get around their ASD
Go with all these tips and you'll be listening to them saying how they don't normally do this while they re riding your dik
Logistics is first step...always schedule date in walking distance or as close as possible to your place... This is key for the girls who will be on the fence about you or going to ur place on first date...
..don't hug or kiss at first...IMO too much at beginning....can be really good with some chicks but can be too much for others in the very beginning to set bad impression....and when u think about it it is kind of over and cheesy unless you do it like a true don Juan who has no qualms about it...I doubt that's u though...no offense...takes a supreme natural or very experienced guy....IMO its unnecessary in the first place...not required..
However...light touch on back to guide her walking and then boom escalate kino quickly from there and be sure to drink and get her to drink a lot...gives her an excuse to be slutty and sets a fun vibe plus some good fun convo on both sides...
But kino kino and more kino...and playful negs...like god u really are such a geek arent u and push her shoulder...if she says something that warrants this and its already a good vibe...just one small exampke...kino is mist important though..then towards end ask her what kind of movies she likes and you should continue the conversation with a good movie at your place ..
U will probably encounter some kind of resistance... Pull out the good old I have a strict no sex rule on the first date...then say you having a good time and would like to continue it....
You have to soft sell them so to speak... Ease them into it..
If met with more resistance... Keep selling it to the best of ur ability....I've gotten pretty good at it....
If i feel like its a lost cause ill throw one more curve ball...I'll tell them ok lets just go for a walk and enjoy the fresh air...then conveniently pass my apartment on the way by and say oh, i live here...just forgot I need to go get something I.left behind and start to go up and say come wait for me will just take a sec....
This is a last resort though...got one bang and female orbiter before out of three attempts out of this last resort desperation method...so...always go go same night lay....I have girls I was even convinced I wouldn't bang screaming at the end of the night in my bed just because I still kept trying to sell them on going back home with me even though I had alread concerned there was no chance in my mind...
just goes to show u that you truly never know until u actually try...
my rule is dont accept no but don't be obviously pushy if that makes sense...be a kind of silly non threatening.pushy...
It becomes like second nature once u do it enough...
Don't worry about rejection...you will get more smoother the more you try...being aggressive from the beginning is important though...the art of balance will come in time..
..don't hug or kiss at first...IMO too much at beginning....can be really good with some chicks but can be too much for others in the very beginning to set bad impression....and when u think about it it is kind of over and cheesy unless you do it like a true don Juan who has no qualms about it...I doubt that's u though...no offense...takes a supreme natural or very experienced guy....IMO its unnecessary in the first place...not required..
However...light touch on back to guide her walking and then boom escalate kino quickly from there and be sure to drink and get her to drink a lot...gives her an excuse to be slutty and sets a fun vibe plus some good fun convo on both sides...
But kino kino and more kino...and playful negs...like god u really are such a geek arent u and push her shoulder...if she says something that warrants this and its already a good vibe...just one small exampke...kino is mist important though..then towards end ask her what kind of movies she likes and you should continue the conversation with a good movie at your place ..
U will probably encounter some kind of resistance... Pull out the good old I have a strict no sex rule on the first date...then say you having a good time and would like to continue it....
You have to soft sell them so to speak... Ease them into it..
If met with more resistance... Keep selling it to the best of ur ability....I've gotten pretty good at it....
If i feel like its a lost cause ill throw one more curve ball...I'll tell them ok lets just go for a walk and enjoy the fresh air...then conveniently pass my apartment on the way by and say oh, i live here...just forgot I need to go get something I.left behind and start to go up and say come wait for me will just take a sec....
This is a last resort though...got one bang and female orbiter before out of three attempts out of this last resort desperation method...so...always go go same night lay....I have girls I was even convinced I wouldn't bang screaming at the end of the night in my bed just because I still kept trying to sell them on going back home with me even though I had alread concerned there was no chance in my mind...
just goes to show u that you truly never know until u actually try...
my rule is dont accept no but don't be obviously pushy if that makes sense...be a kind of silly non threatening.pushy...
It becomes like second nature once u do it enough...
Don't worry about rejection...you will get more smoother the more you try...being aggressive from the beginning is important though...the art of balance will come in time..
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.