TheMonkeyKing
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tips for banging on first date...
- Thread starter TheMonkeyKing
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
TheGambino
Master Don Juan
Very Simple, i'll give you a bunch.
You meet up with her kiss her on her cheek and hugg her.
You put your hand on her back when you open the door for her and when you guys sit down.
You touch her often during the date. When you talk, when you laugh, when you explaining something. Touch her on her arm, shoulder, back. When you excuse yourself and go to the toilet touch her knee or pinch her softly above her knee and go.
Grab her hand out of the blue, look at her rings and ask who got them for her. (if shes in2 you she wont mention any guys, only her aunt, mother, friend whatever)
Look in her eyes often and a lot and ask a lot of questions and let her blablabla. Look at her lips when she talks and whisper in her ears when its noisey. At that certain point when you want to kiss her bend over towards her whisper in her ears, smell her neck and go for the kiss. Kino heavily when you kiss her.
Or grab her hand and pull her towards you and smell her neck and kiss or go for the kiss directly.
Then it's easy, make out with her and suggest a drink at your place. Or in the car.
Just do all this subtle, and start lightly and turn it up every time a bit.
1+1=2 goodluck
You meet up with her kiss her on her cheek and hugg her.
You put your hand on her back when you open the door for her and when you guys sit down.
You touch her often during the date. When you talk, when you laugh, when you explaining something. Touch her on her arm, shoulder, back. When you excuse yourself and go to the toilet touch her knee or pinch her softly above her knee and go.
Grab her hand out of the blue, look at her rings and ask who got them for her. (if shes in2 you she wont mention any guys, only her aunt, mother, friend whatever)
Look in her eyes often and a lot and ask a lot of questions and let her blablabla. Look at her lips when she talks and whisper in her ears when its noisey. At that certain point when you want to kiss her bend over towards her whisper in her ears, smell her neck and go for the kiss. Kino heavily when you kiss her.
Or grab her hand and pull her towards you and smell her neck and kiss or go for the kiss directly.
Then it's easy, make out with her and suggest a drink at your place. Or in the car.
Just do all this subtle, and start lightly and turn it up every time a bit.
1+1=2 goodluck
I d add
-- ask her logistics questions '...do u live nearby...'. That will help to weed out the ones who
aren't DTF
-- use micro dates - take her to a few different places on the same night. it's an old pua trick that makes them feel like they have known you for longer. helps to get around their ASD
Go with all these tips and you'll be listening to them saying how they don't normally do this while they re riding your dik
-- ask her logistics questions '...do u live nearby...'. That will help to weed out the ones who
aren't DTF
-- use micro dates - take her to a few different places on the same night. it's an old pua trick that makes them feel like they have known you for longer. helps to get around their ASD
Go with all these tips and you'll be listening to them saying how they don't normally do this while they re riding your dik
Logistics is first step...always schedule date in walking distance or as close as possible to your place... This is key for the girls who will be on the fence about you or going to ur place on first date...
..don't hug or kiss at first...IMO too much at beginning....can be really good with some chicks but can be too much for others in the very beginning to set bad impression....and when u think about it it is kind of over and cheesy unless you do it like a true don Juan who has no qualms about it...I doubt that's u though...no offense...takes a supreme natural or very experienced guy....IMO its unnecessary in the first place...not required..
However...light touch on back to guide her walking and then boom escalate kino quickly from there and be sure to drink and get her to drink a lot...gives her an excuse to be slutty and sets a fun vibe plus some good fun convo on both sides...
But kino kino and more kino...and playful negs...like god u really are such a geek arent u and push her shoulder...if she says something that warrants this and its already a good vibe...just one small exampke...kino is mist important though..then towards end ask her what kind of movies she likes and you should continue the conversation with a good movie at your place ..
U will probably encounter some kind of resistance... Pull out the good old I have a strict no sex rule on the first date...then say you having a good time and would like to continue it....
You have to soft sell them so to speak... Ease them into it..
If met with more resistance... Keep selling it to the best of ur ability....I've gotten pretty good at it....
If i feel like its a lost cause ill throw one more curve ball...I'll tell them ok lets just go for a walk and enjoy the fresh air...then conveniently pass my apartment on the way by and say oh, i live here...just forgot I need to go get something I.left behind and start to go up and say come wait for me will just take a sec....
This is a last resort though...got one bang and female orbiter before out of three attempts out of this last resort desperation method...so...always go go same night lay....I have girls I was even convinced I wouldn't bang screaming at the end of the night in my bed just because I still kept trying to sell them on going back home with me even though I had alread concerned there was no chance in my mind...
just goes to show u that you truly never know until u actually try...
my rule is dont accept no but don't be obviously pushy if that makes sense...be a kind of silly non threatening.pushy...
It becomes like second nature once u do it enough...
Don't worry about rejection...you will get more smoother the more you try...being aggressive from the beginning is important though...the art of balance will come in time..
..don't hug or kiss at first...IMO too much at beginning....can be really good with some chicks but can be too much for others in the very beginning to set bad impression....and when u think about it it is kind of over and cheesy unless you do it like a true don Juan who has no qualms about it...I doubt that's u though...no offense...takes a supreme natural or very experienced guy....IMO its unnecessary in the first place...not required..
However...light touch on back to guide her walking and then boom escalate kino quickly from there and be sure to drink and get her to drink a lot...gives her an excuse to be slutty and sets a fun vibe plus some good fun convo on both sides...
But kino kino and more kino...and playful negs...like god u really are such a geek arent u and push her shoulder...if she says something that warrants this and its already a good vibe...just one small exampke...kino is mist important though..then towards end ask her what kind of movies she likes and you should continue the conversation with a good movie at your place ..
U will probably encounter some kind of resistance... Pull out the good old I have a strict no sex rule on the first date...then say you having a good time and would like to continue it....
You have to soft sell them so to speak... Ease them into it..
If met with more resistance... Keep selling it to the best of ur ability....I've gotten pretty good at it....
If i feel like its a lost cause ill throw one more curve ball...I'll tell them ok lets just go for a walk and enjoy the fresh air...then conveniently pass my apartment on the way by and say oh, i live here...just forgot I need to go get something I.left behind and start to go up and say come wait for me will just take a sec....
This is a last resort though...got one bang and female orbiter before out of three attempts out of this last resort desperation method...so...always go go same night lay....I have girls I was even convinced I wouldn't bang screaming at the end of the night in my bed just because I still kept trying to sell them on going back home with me even though I had alread concerned there was no chance in my mind...
just goes to show u that you truly never know until u actually try...
my rule is dont accept no but don't be obviously pushy if that makes sense...be a kind of silly non threatening.pushy...
It becomes like second nature once u do it enough...
Don't worry about rejection...you will get more smoother the more you try...being aggressive from the beginning is important though...the art of balance will come in time..
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.