bluebirdseven
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Pls Delete This Thread. Wrong Forum.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Tips for attracting FOB korean chick
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Learn how to dance to Super Junior's Sorry Sorry Sorry and Crayon Pop's Bar Bar Bar and she'll be all yours.
I'll let you in on a secret, Korean chicks think Chinese dudes are macho by default. Just don't act like Captain Korea and you'll be fine.
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMzEyMTg4MzI0.html
Also don't act like a b1tch... if you are from anywhere outside Guangdong, you should be ok.
As a Western guy to a Chinese guy, heres a few mistakes we notice you guys making:
Cut and file your finger nails down.
Don't spit, clean your ears or blow snot rockets in her presence.
Don't carry her purse around
Don't carry a 'man' bag around, it looks gay.
Don't be super friendly and follow her relentlessly
Don't stare at your phone
Don't buy her gifts or take her to expensive restaurants (lanzhou noodles are just fine)
Learn to dance
Work out
I'll let you in on a secret, Korean chicks think Chinese dudes are macho by default. Just don't act like Captain Korea and you'll be fine.
http://v.youku.com/v_show/id_XMzEyMTg4MzI0.html
Also don't act like a b1tch... if you are from anywhere outside Guangdong, you should be ok.
As a Western guy to a Chinese guy, heres a few mistakes we notice you guys making:
Cut and file your finger nails down.
Don't spit, clean your ears or blow snot rockets in her presence.
Don't carry her purse around
Don't carry a 'man' bag around, it looks gay.
Don't be super friendly and follow her relentlessly
Don't stare at your phone
Don't buy her gifts or take her to expensive restaurants (lanzhou noodles are just fine)
Learn to dance
Work out