tips for approaching a unknown girl

[aditya.pagar.ap]

I have a seen a girl in joggers park. So in order to see her I have also started to go there. After some time of walking she goes n sits in temple which is in the park itself. From there she sees everyone jogging. I stare at her when I  pass through that area. She also stares at me and sometimes smiles also.I want to know if I have got a chance with her n if I can exchange number with her. Pllllzzzzzz do reply thanking you in anticipation n also tell me how should I approach her n start a conversations.

 

[NobodyCares1]

She smiles at you, that's one of the best IOIs you can get. Just grab your balls (not literally) and go say Hi to her. It's no rocket science.

 

[Blistex]

I want to know if I have got a chance with her n if I can exchange number with her.

There's always a chance. The chance with this specific individual will depend on your actions and if you build the attraction or demolish it.

Now, you're going to have to start talking to her and build her interest level/attraction for you. Don't start the conversation with the intention of getting a number but rather go where the chat takes you. If you play your words right, you'll eventually get to a point where you two wonder how to contact each other. That's where the number comes in.

 

[Mindgamez]

Don't care about whether you got a chance with her or not. There is absolutely no way you can predict if you can or cannot if you NEVER approached her! Though, if you think it's going to work it often works in your favor. Do it man!

Open your mouth, say hello. Nothing else to say.

 

[aditya.pagar.ap]

guys da problem is that she is always surrounded by her friend n also I don't know what to say plzz reply guys on wat should I say

 

[DanZy]

"Hi"
We're not going to tell you what to say, we're not going to give you a script. Man up and go talk to her, talk about anything that interests you yet is still simple

 

[ARrocket]

Just go up to her like "hey you must loooove watching me run, you're always here!"

Like somebody said, you just have to grab your balls, realize you're a man, and go for it.

In general, I've found that girls are often pretty receptive to being spoken too as long as you're ok looking and aren't obnoxious about it. I have been doing more direct lately, and opening with "hey I thought you're cute so I wanted to come say hi."

Read some approach journals to get some ideas, and then go practice!

Here is the most epic one over: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=134914 He started off pretty bad, but got good through practice.

Some of these show the direct aspect I was talking about: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=199704

This one, the guy isn't that good, but he's brave. You might pick up a thing or two also:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=185927

 

[aditya.pagar.ap]

I even don't look good so u still think I have got a chance with her, who looks damn too good Dan mee

 

[NobodyCares1]

I even don't look good so u still think I have got a chance with her, who looks damn too good Dan mee

You have a huge chance with her. Now go and fvcking approach her already. Looks matter but not with every girl.

 

[Aries86]

Emit positive energy and you will be rewarded at the end. If you look happy self assured man women will feel it and will come to you instead of you having to chase them.

 

[BigSmooth]

Ok I usually don't try to give a canned line suggestion or a script to people because it's not beneficial, but in this case...

If I was in your situation, I would walk up to her, act really tired, and say, "Man, that 80th lap was killer. Wanna race?"

Obviously you say it in a very funny, obnoxious, "I know I'm just kidding" tone but it sets the vibe for a fun conversation.

 

[Nino-Tk]

Well, as guys we have a nice advantage in the looks department in that, if you can just dress a little better, groom yourself, get a nice hair cut, you could easily be good, maybe not Brad Pitt good but it doesn't matter,.

Approaching is the easiest part of this whole thing, so many people spend and waste a lot of time trying to come up with fancy openers and all that jazz. Its really simple, just walk up, say "Hi" and shake her hand firmly. Introduce yourself and tell her why you wanted to meet her. BOOM! What you say doesn't matter, its the intention behind those words.