"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JabberWalkie

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Went for a lunch date, not sure what to do now. Need kick in ass.

Hey guys, so this being my first post I thought I would tell a bit about myself before I get into it. I am 26 and up to this point I have generally been a shy wimp when it comes to females. I read one of the articles on here, which made me realize that women are not unknowable infinite enigmas. I am a graduate student (Yay, physics), so the only thing that has ever bought me any fruit was studying and practice.....why should women be any different?

In any case, i'm trying to get with (dunno if that is the 'technical' term), another cute grad student. She is fresh from Taiwan (well about 6 months) and I have previously asked on a lunch date, on the 16th.

The lunch date......went ok. I am not great at flirting ( I suck really), so I spent most of the time just getting to know her. Made her laugh, had some fun. After that date I was wayyy to into her, so I decided not to contact her until my head came back down to reality.

Now I fear i have been too weak with the flirting and have been dropped into the friend zone. Can this be saved? She said she had fun at lunch, wondering if I should call her for a second date...that or I will see her in class tomorrow.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr.Freestyler19

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the flirting part u need to work on man its just too important to b left out.... always hav eye contact and a slight smile and hav fun while flirting
 
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Stop worrying about the past, focus on the present.

Next date? take her to an action-oriented date.

FOCUS ON HAVING FUN. Forget the flirting.

It's the overall picture that counts.
 
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Do weightlifting.

Oh and forget about the girl, she has probably friendzoned you. Get out there and meet more women. Practice practice practice. Don't forget to be a man, and be sexual.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JabberWalkie

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Well, I think I will friend this one. She is shy+language barrier. It is like trying to talk to a piece of cabbage. She pays me full attention when I am talking, but cant get much out of her.....ah well. Maybe she will loosen up in the future, but its on to greener fields.
 
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