"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tips for a 25 y/o guy dating a 20 y/o girl

the freshmaker

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im 25 and i was talking to this girl whos phone number i recently got. i suggested going out and getting a drink sometime, when she said shes only 20 years old (and cant drink here in the US)

since i turned 21, ive only been dating 21+ girls (unintentionally), so its been a while since i couldnt go out to bars with girls.

any tips or suggestions on getting these younger girls to open up? (im not trying to be her BF, just have fun. im pretty sure she feels the same way too)

thanks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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amoka

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Order her water while you sip on your Captain Morgan.
 
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